I do not participate in the hobby very often.  As a result, it has been hard to use the providers I have used in the past as references since some have told me they do not keep my personal information after a certain period of time.  As a result, I am considering joining a verified dating service.  I am very concerned about giving out my personal information to a service.  I was wondering if anyone could recommend a service, based upon confidentiality, professionalism, cost, etc.  Any input would be greatly appreciated.

http://www.date-check.com/

http://preferred411.com/

-- Modified on 9/16/2007 5:40:29 PM

I find find that most of my guys like date check and preferred 411 also

Always,
LaRue
www.LaRueMcCay.com

I never keep anyone's information, but I never forget a name, an email address, or specifics about a date with a gentleman.  I know I am more on the low end spectrum as far as the number of dates I go on, perhaps making it easier to remember this information.  But it helps if you mention an incident that occurred during your time together with a lady.

For instance, say I saw you last year and you want to see Lady M next week, you might want to say to Lady M, "I met Selena Scott last year at Bellagio.  She might remember how we went to the Petrossian Bar and everyone around us was smoking cigars.  I started coughing uncontrollably, all through the walk and elevator ride up to the room."

I always make mental notes, even if a situation as memorable as the above does not take place.  "Sacramento pilot guy," "Bar-owning Kevin Bacon look-alike," "Port loving horse breeder."  You get the idea.  Share something unique with your date during conversation to make her remember you by.  Have fun, make something up that she's sure not to forget!  

And then again, I'm also a member of Preferred 411.  

Your sharp-shooting, tightrope walking harp instructor and companion,  ;>
Selena Scott


-- Modified on 9/17/2007 10:22:10 AM

I have used preferred411.com for about a year now and I have had no problems dealing with the ladies that use the service.  I pretty much only see ladies who are listed on p411 now.  Sure I miss out on some of the ladies but I can live with that.  

Thank goodness JennySyn is on p411!  Scheduling my rendezvous with her was a breeze!  I wish more ladies took advantage of p411.

use them both!!

xoxo
jenny

Well, if anybody tries to get away without paying, aim for their ass.

I'm always amazed at the memories of the escorts I've been with. Even if I haven't seen them in a year or two, it doesn't take much to jog their memory. When they're seeing hundreds of guys, I just don't see how that's possible. One of the wonders of nature I guess.