This is for the ladies, I recently had set a date with a provider and had it all set up for a date.  She said closer to the date she will give me her private phone # and I could call her.  Well I asked for it and she said she would give it to me the day before our date.  I told her my cell does not have voice mail and if I don't hear it we would not be able to hook up.  Her next letter was to tell me her mom is sick and she will be gone for two weeks.  Well not really believing her I had a friend contact her for a date the same time she was to visit her "sick Mom" and her reply to him was, "sure fill out the information form and we'll set the date".

I have seen some very good providers while in Vegas and have always treated them like ladies and never was impolite or rude to them.  I treated them like my gf for the date.  I was wondering if this is commom for the provider to cancel to accept a longer thus better paying date?  
Thank you ladies for your help, and btw I will be visiting March 20th for a week.

No I don't cancel for a better date . I strongly believe in first come first serve . I believe in keeping your commitment no matter what !!!


But it works both ways . Like it isn’t fair if a guy cancels on me last minute because his first choice suddenly becomes  available .


So is this a common thing with providers ? Is it a common thing with hobbyists? I think it has to do with each persons integrity.
There will be those who fallow the rules of honor and commitment and there are those who don’t .


Now lets say someone wants to book me for a 24 hour but I have a two hour booking that day . I may call the guy who has me for two hours and see if he can reschedule , but if he can’t and he booked first then I can’t do the 24 hour appointment .

Now some of you may think I am crazy but I believe in KARMA and you don’t play games to make an extra buck because in the long run it may hurt you .



Here is a true story – A hobbyist was booked with one provider for a 2 hour appointment . He booked it two weeks in advance.

A week later someone wanted to book an overnighter with her . She took the overnighter and canceled the 2 hour guy . So the 2 hour guy booked me . The overnighter guy flaked on the other provider . She then was trying to call the two hour guy to rebook him ………..he told her sorry too late .

So in the end she was left with no appointment and she lost the two hour client who was a regular and although he didn’t book overnighters , two hours once a month also adds up


Moral of the story for both gents and ladies, keep your commitments don’t play games and don’t do to others what you don’t want done to you.

Hope this helps
Xoxo CindySpice

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I would say there were issues.

1) It seems to me that you made things difficult for the provider you wanted to see.  No voice mail?  No other contact methods?  Maybe she suddenly became extremely uncomfortable with the situation or you.

2) As for your friend, it doesn't seem very odd to me that the provider wanted to screen her potential clients by getting them to fill out the webform.  It's better than telling potential clients they're busy or don't want to do same day appointments.  The delay gives her the excuse not to book with your friend.  And if he doesn't bother filling out the form, he doesn't show up on her radar.

Was she busy with someone else on that day?  Only she knows for sure.  But give her a reason not to trust you and you can forget about seeing her ever.  You might consider being more accommodating in the future or finding someone willing to play your game cause it sure seems like she wasn't prepared to play.

Bob

Ladies and Bob, I thank you for your replies and ladies it was nice to know you would not cancel on me or others.  Bob in my defense it is an older cell phone, lol,  I don't like the new fangled gadgets.  Anyway I did give her the names of my references to check on me, as I always treated the ladies as ladies, so she should not have been put off or uneasy.

Bob, I can't be more agree with you,
I had a situation exactely like that about 2 weeks ago, exept I did not promice to give him my phone number (I do everything by e-mail)
I cancel it because he gives me an aditude (if it is posible to do by e-mails, lol) and he wasn't cooperative providing information,
I've been doing that over a year now,
I have a good repuutation and I don't cancel scheduled dates for "better ones".
I DID ask another gentlemen to to fill out the online form since most of them travel to Las Vegas for several days and it is a always a posibilities to try to schedule in another day


xoxo

HEY HEY HEY, I wrote back to her and explained about the phone thing, me not liking new technology and all and we have our original date set.  thanks for all the advise.

Like previously stated, if a regular client wanted to book a longer date during another appointments time period, I might email and ask if we could re-schedule, but any "better date" would never want me to cancel on a previous engagement just for him.

xoxox
Anik

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I just don't want to see you.You are far from the charming guy you think you are. You have emailed me over 8 times concerning 1 one hour meeting. I don't care about how many "providers" you know or how inportant you think you are. Twice you have asked me to ref. other girls to you. I ONLY agreed this morning because I thought it meant  a lot to you. Well, you can go Fu3K yourself. A 1 hour meeting is not my style or what my income depends on. I ONLY was going to see you in the first place because you said you where a friend of my girlfriends. You were rude by sending "fake appointments' which always get the same answer "fill out the appointment page" I have to verify the person first.I have all of your emails saved so if you want to post a stupid war over ME decling your company and your 1 hour meeting, go for it. Get a life.

I just wanted everyone to know what Devin Taylor thinks of the men who date her.  After she accepted a date today she responded with this email. This email is copied just as she wrote it.

Dean, I do not want to see you.I very reraly do a 1 hour meeting.  Your constant emails annoye me very much.I read your post on TER. I am not going to waste me time with people like you.  A 1 hour meeting is not that big of deal for me.  I amily do 2-6 hour meetings. Get over yourself and just book someone else. I tried to get out of this in a nice way but your are a jerk.  I have saved all your emails so I can post tem also.  Do not emmail me ever gain,get a life.

Well Devin I am willing to let the good people and the nicer providers read those emails I sent you and let them decide if I was a jerk or not.  so please post them.

Ree@N is talking about me

Devin, please post the emails I sent to you.  I have always been polite even after you lied about your sick mom.  The ladies I mentioned were only to verify that I was a gentlemen with them.  Correct me if I am wrong but providers ask for references, correct.  The bottom line is you accepted a one hour date and lied to get out of it.  So do all of us guys a favor DO NOT BOOK AND HOUR DATE IF YOU INTEND TO CANCEL AND LIE TO GET OUT OF IT.  Also this is the meanest thing I said to you, DO SPELL CHECK. Your letters show that you are a Jerry Springer guest.

My answer was in a general reference to a question……………. do ladies cancel on guys for another date ?


It was not a direct accusation on my part about if this matter happened to TallGuyTwo .


I just wanted him and others to know many ladies don’t cancel for something better ( BTW Sara why did you delete your post ? )

BTW just as gents decide to cancel on us ,  A lady has the right to cancel her appointment as long as she lets the client know ( doesn’t flake ) .

Just tonight a guy called me asking to book last minute because he couldn’t get a hold of a lady he originally booked and he wasn’t sure she was going to show up , well she didn't  have his room number …………….how can she show up ??
So I rearrange some personal stuff I was going to do , go home , start getting ready , 2 hours later he calls me he has to cancel on me .
And yeah it is because his original appointment finally called him . Ok so should I be mad ?? well I give him credit for calling me and letting me know and for telling me the truth , so I am not mad .  If he would have just flaked on me then I would get mad .

So she let you know she wants to cancel , no big deal , No need to bring drama to this thread . It wasn’t about judging why she canceled or what really happened ………………….. it was just to answer a question in general .

Ree@N

I don't want to see YOU(after about the 3rd email). I wrestled with the decsion for a few weeks (as you booked in advance). I tried to turn you down in a "nice way" as I do not like to hurt anyone"s feelings. From the get go your emails were "very needy" and you wrote a lot. I did not want to give you my # because I was afraid you would call too much(you have a slight staker twinge). All of this hoopla over a 1 hour meeting lol. I do not depend on TER for my client/friends, so you are not hurting my income by stating that am a "Jerry Springer" type. I was upset when I read your post and just started to type a response (my spelling has not always been that great nor are my math skills in case you want to take a shoot at that ) I have meet many sweet,cool men and  women on this board. The Owner has always been fair to me so I post once in while to wish someone Happy Birthday or share info about something I know of that might help someone else. I very rarely run ads for myself. I just enjoy the board. The point of my post is that I just did not want to see YOU. Your emails got on my nerves and I do not meet with people I do not want to. I explained that the ONLY reason I was going to meet with you was because a friend said you were safe and nice. I am happy that I followed my gut feeling that you are not nice. Oh! Just for the record I have never been on the "Jerry Show" Like I said before and in my email canceling to you,there are plenty of 1 hour ladies that I am sure that would love to see you. It must be that "shining personality" you have shown. Ask anyone here that has meet me or read a review, I am far from stupid. Have a good trip and thank you for showing your true colors.