I had a session this past weekend with one of Las Vegas' lovelies. I am not going to identify the provider, but I have the following observations:
She was heavier than her pictures would indicate.We had a one hour appointment, but spent a good deal of time trying to convince me to buy more.
She insisted on receiving the envelope prior to any activities beginning, which I had to retrieve from the bathroom, where I placed it in an attempt to be discrete.
She criticized me for some of my past provider relationships.
As she was exiting she asked that I review her as a 10/10. Is this type of behavior becoming the norm? It is against my usual practice to right negative reviews of providers, but this was one of my worst hobby experiences. My usual practice is to not review ladies I have not seen at least three times, but this situation may call for both my first negative review and my first my recommendation not to see in the future. I tend to believe that her previous 10/10 ratings are pure fantasy. I really don't want to ruin anyone's business, but should I review this gal or not?
ruining her business. If she did NOT provided as she advertised then she is ruining her business. This is a review board and if she was not what she advertised then you should write an honest review, so other hobbyust can decide if they want to see her or not. You should not perpetuate the 10/10 if she was not that to you. See as much ladies as you do, maybe she had an off night or there was no chemistry between you, it happens; but you should not sugar coat your review for the sake of not hurting her feelings. Experienced hobbyist will make their own decision based on their criteria of researching a provider. Just be as honest and fair as possible is all we ask.
So hopefully this does not happen to another hobbyist. If she cared that little about your time together, then why should you care?
Just be honest and help other hobbyist and help her to see, she has to provider better service in the future.
I think that you should write a honest review. That's the purpose of this site.. For us to read about your experience so we can make a decision for ourselves. At the current rates the more reviews, the better, negative or positive. I personally would not see anyone with bad review.
I've had a few press for the 10/10 as well... One girl was great, but not 10/10 yet ALL of her reviews were 10/10. I know it's just because guys agrees to do it for her. Grade inflation
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I've never had a quality lady in Vegas say that.... NEVER!
And I obviously have my favorites for anybody who follows this board...
"She criticized me for some of my past provider relationships."
Seriously?
I've never had that happen either.
"Is this type of behavior becoming the norm?"
I don't think so and I hope not.
"It is against my usual practice to right negative reviews of providers, but this was one of my worst hobby experiences."
Sad to hear that.. this is why I love M&G's and private parties so much nowadays. The chemistry is there... or it's not to avoid all of the above to begin with.
It sucks being in a position to want to write a negative review on somebody popular and I'm assuming they are popular which is why you bring all of this up.
Great thing is that there is back channeling going on to warn everybody else without putting yourself out there.
She was heavier than her pictures would indicate.
We had a one hour appointment, but spent a good deal of time trying to convince me to buy more.
She insisted on receiving the envelope prior to any activities beginning, which I had to retrieve from the bathroom, where I placed it in an attempt to be discrete.
She criticized me for some of my past provider relationships.
As she was exiting she asked that I review her as a 10/10.
Is this type of behavior becoming the norm?
It is against my usual practice to right negative reviews of providers, but this was one of my worst hobby experiences.
My usual practice is to not review ladies I have not seen at least three times, but this situation may call for both my first negative review and my first my recommendation not to see in the future.
I tend to believe that her previous 10/10 ratings are pure fantasy.
I really don't want to ruin anyone's business, but should I review this gal or not?
This really, really irks me!
I was touring Chicago last week and I met with two different patrons who mentioned how often they have providers ask them for 10/10s. One of them actually seemed to "offer" to write a 10/10 for me because apparently, when he's agreed to writing 10/10s for others, they gave him a free session as a "thank you."
!!!!!!!! Grrrrrrr.
If you write an honest review about her, I seriously doubt that you will be "ruining her business." TER reviews are helpful marketing tools but I have many friends in this industry with "no review" policies who do just fine.
If you write it honestly and without malice--and that's my gut instinct from reading your writing style in your post--I think there's nothing wrong with it. Attitude is a huge part of being a successful companion and maybe she needs a wake-up call to realize that she's lacking one
And this is why I won't see a lady with perfect or near perfect reviews. I read this story too often.
My initial response is to write honest review....also remember the physical part - was that satisfactory.
BUT, having reviewed the replay, personally I would not do a review.
Everyone is fighting for business, work (hobbyists, providers, workers) and to make a living.
hopefully the lady in question will read this and change her marketing and business strategy.
I assume you will assist others via confidential PM.
yes you should review her that's not right what she did and other hobbyist need to know! as far as I'm concerned she earned the score that you give her. upselling is b.s. and should not be tolerated. I've never had an issue with upselling once I started to see better rated ladies. all her services should be inclusive unless she says otherwise on her website or advertisement. not the day off your appointment. perhaps she had a bad day or wasn't into you but she has no right to criticize you about other ladies that u saw. that's not her business every hobbyist likes differnt types of ladies, menu ect. basically different strokes for different folks!! I say give an honest review of her and let us decide if she is for us or not. imo that's what reviews should be for.
I'm sorry about your experience, thats not an easy one. I hope your next date is a real 10/10! As far as you leaving a review, does she have any bad reviews at all? Or are they all 9's and 10's?
xoxo Jenny
I have more PM's than I have ever received before.
I am going to post a review in the next couple of days, I think that her reviews have not been honest and I am going to correct the record.
Good for you. A review needs to be written. For many of us, a trip to LV is a big deal. I look forward to it and would be highly disappointed if all was not as advertised
I tend to believe that writing a mediocre review can lead to future difficulties setting up quality appointments with providers. It is naive to think that they don't read/scout an individuals reviews to get a "flavor" of what might be expected/enjoyed. (sometimes I think it is a positive because the ladies can "know a bit" of your likes/dislikes and prepare accordingly)
Therefore, I will not write a mediocre review... 7.5 combined or less.... That being said, from the information you gave, this was far from rising to a mediocre experience. This is the type of activity that we members rely on and why we pay/participate in VIP membership and the boards.
I would ask that you consider writing an review stating your discomfort at the low scores, but that these actions would make you recommend that this lady be avoided by your peers here at TER. I believe that with your record of reviews and the variety of ladies and locals, your credibility would remain intact.
Best wishes with your decision
That is a major purpose of TER. It was suggested that you should not write a bad review because that might harm you or the girl, that is a bad idea. If guys are afraid to write bad reviews then there is no purpose to this site. The main point is to be honest in any review.
If a provider is serious about her business, she will learn from the review and make improvements where needed.
Thats to bad for sure. most of us wouldn't behave that way. I dont ask people to review me or ask for payment up front or, criticize anyone for anything. This is supposed ot be a fun experience for both parties involved. That is certainly now how it is with most providers I am sure. Review her and be honest in your review if you feel that is what you need to do. Sucks but the truth is the truth.
please remember we are people and sometimes we gain some weight, so i feel that if you do write a review that ( unless she was like 50 plus pounds over weight) leave the weight issue out. I know over the years of my career i have gone up and down 20 lbs. It is something i am always fighting with and most women are.
The weight of a provider, is really not a issue for me. The problem is when she has a bad attitude during our date.
I would not see her again for that reason, if she is nasty or rushing our date.
Just remember people like different types and choice in providers, but none of us are perfect.
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I think you are focusing too much upon the weight issue versus the incongruity between her appearance and her pictures.
I have yet to see a provider how looks exactly like her photos and understand photo shoots represent a highly idealized image of the lady. I have never in 10 years in the hobby seen as large a discrepancy between the photos and the lady who appeared at my door in this instance.
Another lady I won't mention was recently in Vegas. She has a very different appearance now than she had 4 or 5 years ago, but her photos reflect that difference.
It is a truth in marketing issue
I posted it, we'll see if/when it appears.
She was heavier than her pictures would indicate.
We had a one hour appointment, but spent a good deal of time trying to convince me to buy more.
She insisted on receiving the envelope prior to any activities beginning, which I had to retrieve from the bathroom, where I placed it in an attempt to be discrete.
She criticized me for some of my past provider relationships.
As she was exiting she asked that I review her as a 10/10.
Is this type of behavior becoming the norm?
It is against my usual practice to right negative reviews of providers, but this was one of my worst hobby experiences.
My usual practice is to not review ladies I have not seen at least three times, but this situation may call for both my first negative review and my first my recommendation not to see in the future.
I tend to believe that her previous 10/10 ratings are pure fantasy.
I really don't want to ruin anyone's business, but should I review this gal or not?
a review should be done..
We shall see what becomes of this .. no one is perfect and everyone ages . Some better than others and some people are upsellers etc..
Sorry to see this occured but they say the cream rises to the top..The las vegas ladies all that I have met are honest and ofcourse reputable.. 9/10 have down days too!! wink/smile
Hope all gets better for the OP and the lady in question..
respectfully,
Lovely Loren