I only have one review, so I don't know if I am qualified to give you an answer, but here goes anyway. If I am correct, some providers don't want a review, for whatever reason. Some hobbiests feel the same way. Wishes should be respected. That being said, I believe the white list is an area for providers to check out a potential client, making the screening process a little more complete. This has to be a good thing(sorry, Martha) for everyone. If the white list gives a provider another level of security, as well as let them know what to expect from the hobbiest, then that info can lead to better experiences for both the provider and the hobbiest. Don't we all want to have the best possible experience that we can? I sure do.
Just my opinion.
And by the way Victoria, I clicked on the link, and all I can say is... WOW!!!!!
I hope I get the opportunity to meet you.

Everyone have fun and stay safe,

B

White List Requests

I have received white list referrals, unsolicited. And I have requested them. I have only asked providers that have seen me more than once and they already know my handle.

It certainly helps when seeing someone for the first time, they can see your referral and contact the referrer directly if they choose. Most are done right through TER's PM mail.

Of course, the White List does not say anything about the guy, only his handle, when he joined and when the referral was added. I guesss you might want more than that, so more contact would be needed.

Good luck.
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Thanks For A Great Thread Lovely Lady

I use my White List referrals for verification along with my Date-Check verifications.  If a provider uses some other form of verification, I don't offer up my id until the session is over.  

That way I know what the review is going to be and if she didn't give a good session and that is the review I am going to write, she doesn't know who I am.  On the other hand, if it was a good session, I always give my id and ask kindly that if they like the review I write, if they will kindly give me a White List referral.

Unfortunately, not that many ladies seem to know what the White List is or how to use it.  A lot of ladies mistakenly think you have to be a VIP to use it.  Still other ladies are signed up as members of TER, but not as providers, and they can't use the White List for that reason.

I have tried to educate ladies about how to use the White List and how valuable it can be, but not many have ended up figuring it out, which is too bad.

I have also tried to get a number of ladies on Date-Check, with little success.  I sometimes get the feeling that a lot of ladies do this kind of half-assed and are missing out on a lot of opportunities because of it.

I just try to be the best person I can and help as many people to have as much success as I can.  If they take my advice and help, great.  If not, it is their loss not mine.

As far as follow up, I love it!  A have returned home on a few occassions and had an e-card or email waiting for me thanking me for a great session.  It really gives me a good feeling inside and makes me feel like I did my job in helping the lady have as nice a time as I did.

Victoria, you are a beautiful and classy lady.  If you ever make it to DC, PM me and let me know.  I would be honored to have you as a referral on my White List, and just know that I am more than willing to earn that referral...LOL.

Re:White listing clients on the TER......

I like the idea of if you write a review will the lady white list you. Fair exchange it seems. Except, for the fact guys can submit a review good or bad. Ladies can only white list if it went well. Not if a guy gets out of line, Roughs us up, shorts an envelope. So the white list is very limited in comparison to the reviews.

BTW, ladies did have to be vip to white list previously. I know this from experience because the ones I submitted prior to being VIP, never posted, and the ones I submitted after I became vip did. Although it did take me a week to figure out how to white list so I could have been a dutz. Who knows.  

NOTE: shortcut to white listing: (for VIP's) Once review has posted to your profile if you click on the gents name and go to his reviewer profile on the bottom right corner you'll find a button to be able to submit his name to the white list.



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The one thing about the white list that no one has mentioned yet is that ANYONE can claim to be a particular handle, so you need to be sure that the person trying to make a date is really who he says he is. Recently, a girl got in trouble when she saw a guy who claimed to be a member with an impressive white list. When she met him, she realized nothing about him matched with what she knew of the member and she tried to leave, but he roughed her up before she could. That won't happen if you P.M. the handle of the member and he replies and says, yes, he had asked you for a date. Then you will know that you have the right guy. But for that to work, both you and the member need to have V.I.P. standing with TER. Be careful and good luck!

T.L.