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posted 9 years ago

This is maybe more a question to the guys but ladies are welcome to chime in.
I recently tried to make a booking with a new lady and as expected there were the screening questions. She did not want to accept TER whitelists and either requested an e-mail sent from my work address or photo of me with two ID’s.
The work e-mail got me thinking to the recent scenario of the Ole Miss football coach that got terminated for calling an escort service from his work phone. How many of us have either used a work e-mail to perform screening or even called or texted a lady from a work phone. Could we be terminated because of it?
Maybe the more established guys use references but what about a brand new guy going through it for the first time. He might not think twice to send an email from his work address because he wants to be screened.
Just some food for thought in today’s age where all activities are monitored especially from work devices.
This post is not too challenge the fact that ladies have to perform screening but more about the ways that could impact the guys

hiddenhills9 years ago129 reads

Have you considered joining P411

Btw, with all the great providers in Vegas, certainly there are many other providers whose screening techniques are more aligned to what you’re comfortable in giving.

When I’m faced with similar screening demands I simply move on.

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Sheila Starr8 years ago137 reads

I also take TER Whitelist, and escort reference vouch for you

Working together as a Team..xoxo

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ladysofia8 years ago134 reads

Also take Whitelist for screening And I light screening!

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trscla8 years ago142 reads

It's more than just a work issue

Think about all the hacks that have happened over the last few years on personal info. We've had major companies hacked into, exposing all sorts of financial info (I've had at least two myself and have received credit monitoring services for a year from both companies). Of course, who could forget the Ashley Madison fiasco. And P411 is not immune to that happening to them.

I personally don't do any of it. There are enough providers out there who are willing to work with newbies and will let you use them as a reference after you see them. I'd go that route if you don't feel comfortable with it. And if a provider won't take a reference from another highly reviewed provider, just move on as there are plenty of fish in this ocean.

-- Modified on 12/14/2017 6:29:17 AM

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CharleneLove8 years ago152 reads

I use many alternative methods..

... I neither Accept or Want employment information when verifying a invitation for fun.
There are many other methods to use to receive the same comfort level for me.
You would be quite surprised of how helpful and informational a gentleman will be if you don’t require him to share his place of employment for verification.

-- Modified on 12/15/2017 12:45:30 AM

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loon388 years ago125 reads

Re: I use many alternative methods..

CL is quite right about sharing information. We all bridle a bit when required to do so, but having a conversation with our date is really an easy and pleasant way to pass on the information that you might want and need to verify.

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tantraerica8 years ago148 reads

Re: I use many alternative methods..

I use alternate methods as well. I actually prefer to agree on a phone date to get the info verbally. This way i get a better "feel" for the person. I would be worried if someone was ok with no screening info. That would be a red flag to me

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trscla8 years ago126 reads

Re: I use many alternative methods..

That would depend on your definition of "screening". For some providers, they would consider the info I've given to the women that have seen me to be no screening whatsoever. About all they truly know when they see me is that my description of my age and nationality is correct. All the other info, although entirely true, was not verifiable (with the exception of my phone number). And that holds true for what I know about them to a large extent. It's not like I know anyone that does reviews on women and haven't been either pleasantly surprised or disappointed when experiencing someone after reading reviews on them. Ultimately for me, there's a certain level of trust that I garner from voice influctuations and comments made when I talk to someone. No different than when I've dated women and had relationships with them. There is a certain amount of risk on both sides in this transaction. There are plenty of providers that recognize that and are willing to work with that. And if a provider is not, that's their perogative also. There are plenty of options on both sides.

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calliecruz-GFE8 years ago144 reads

Here's a tip

Simple - ask her to set up a vanilla email address that's not on her website or TER anywhere.

She should have an alternative email address for you to email instead of her regular [email protected] address. I have one that's totally vanilla and unsearchable with a common name that I use for this very purpose.

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CharleneLove8 years ago120 reads

Re: Here's a tip

... not sure I really care for your tip.
If a potential new friend asked me to set up a vanilla address so that We could communicate I would think.. 🤔..huh? ... and then SMH.
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I think your tip would complicate things and perhaps have ladies not respond to him.
Most gentelmen a private email address for hobbying for privacy Im sure.
Glad your tip works well for you though.

-- Modified on 12/20/2017 12:02:25 AM

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loon388 years ago127 reads

Here's a tip

There's a simple way of living - it's called the KISS principle. We all know what that means. Why make hobbying so difficult and why make it more difficult for the women we want to play with? Just IMHO!

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trscla8 years ago113 reads

Re: Here's a tip

No one's saying it has to be difficult. As a client, you go with what you feel comfortable giving out (realizing that a divorce could put one in financial ruin). The provider will determine if that is sufficient to make her feel safe. If it doesn't work for either side, you move on. Sounds pretty simple to me.

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AlexEmpire8 years ago145 reads

Screening

As someone said, it's a comfort issue. If someone doesn't screen the way you prefer, there are always others! I do require some kind of employment verification for total newbies! But I accept TER whitelist for those who have seen a couple of providers!