Ok, so i just seen an ad from a fine lady on here and was initially very interested..  Then when i read the smallprint, i.e all the conditions that someone would have to meet to actually even approach her, i was axhausted!  I do understand the need for safety on both sides, but is it sometimes going too far?

No,not in my opinion whatever the lady requires to set up an appointment to make her self comfortable is her choice.Every lady works differently on what she may ask if you feel it is too much there are other ladies out there.It is your decision on how much info you want to divulge.The only time I would think a request is too far is if she was requesting credit card info for verification purposes.

Ok.. fair comment, personally i'm a single guy so i aint got a prob with any verification requests... but what i was trying to say was simply that some ladies will lose biz because its just too hard work,, just be realistic about it..

So I see you have reviews here so it ought to be fairly simple. Most (not all but I would say perhaps about 80%) of the highly reviewed ladies will accept either TER whitelist or a date check service (such as P 411 especially out west) with more than a few okays. I have found that it is really easy for me since I make a point of trying to write a review and then asking the provider for okays on these lists. I now have more than 5 okays on the whitelist and P411 and that is generally (not always as I noted before) good to go. But I get the frustration when you know you are okay ( but remember they don't know you from adam so you have to respect their safety protocol) and you have to struggle through confirmation. In the end, I would highly recommend trying to get whitelist okays here and join one of the date verification services ( as I said I think P411 is best out west, particularly in Cali and NV) and get some okays there, especially from highly rated providers. Will not solve every issue but most. Good luck and endure.

I agree with jaydalee. I always contact more then 1 provider before
a weekened that I pick to hobby. Lots to pick from on TER

No they won't honey.....trust me....for every guy that does not want to go through a provider's "ringer" for verification/screening there are are 2 that don't mind.