I have done some exploring of this with Jade Jones.  Her and I had a blast doing a vareity of toy play last December and some more this June.   Some other ladies who have told me they are ok doing this are Nikki Avalon, Elaina Jackie Jewel, Roxy and Logan and I have discussed it as well.  I've seen Jackie and Roxy and they are lots of fun to be with and are very good at what they do.  The other ladies I 've talked to and exchanged e-mails with and they all have great personlaties and are highly reviewed.  Some others who are into it, but I don't know are Megan (lady Scropio), Monet, Rosey Rocket and Lisa Storm.    Drop some of these ladies a line and see what happens.  Might be some others as well.