everything you read .

"She asked for the donation first" --   No I don't .

"Then she took off her skirt which revealed her wearing nothing" -- Not true ! I always wear sexy lingerie  under my clothes

"She then dropped down on her knees and gave me a bbbj."--  Never happened . Not my style to drop down on my knees and I don't give bbbj's ( sorry I believe in playing safe ) .

Thanks for your great review , but I really prefer things be told as happened . or maybe all these reviews are really just fiction . The imagination of the writer , and that's ok too ,  but that is why I say you can't believe everything you read

xoxo CindySpice

-- Modified on 9/3/2004 12:15:37 PM

you often if you were even in the same room with some of the reviews you get!  It would be an eye opener to be able to witness (I guess it really is an eye opener to view you!) and then see what both sides wrote about the experience.  It keeps things "interesting" I'm sure.

thanks for the honesty Cindy.  I am sure this happens often.

No BBBJ???

I was surprised to see that comment on your post since not only do a number of reviews on you claim that type of service was given (at least 4 or 5) in the first few pages – it is also listed that way on your main review page (the one listing all the services provided etc).  If is is incorrect, I am surprised you have not asked to have that changed?  By the way – is a BBBJ truly unsafe?  Do you not kiss guys who have DATY with another lady (any lady let alone a provider).  Just seeking to round out my educations.  

That's one of the downsides to providing free VIP membership in exchange for posting reviews.  You get a bunch of Penthouse Forum wannabees looking for a handout.

I know thats bull, cause I have begged Cindy a number of times to change her rule on no BBBJ's for me and she wouldn't budge Believe me I tried, lol, I would see Ms.Spice in heartbeat if it wasn't for that rule...SO IT'S BULL!!!

B-Pop

She does not provide BBBJ.

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=3&Messageid=14639

She has never provided BBBJ's from what I have heard and read, but that being said, the odds of her catching anything from one are allmost non-existent, being in the medical field I can assure you the risk's involved with DATY are much greater for the man, than a BBBJ is for a woman. Face it, she just don't want your dirty Pee Pee in her mouth LOL.

So to round out your education HBS1, hobby on and don't sweat it, if you or anyone else was truly that worried about catching an STD from a BBBJ or anything else done during an escorting session, you wouldn't be in the hobby at all, party on !!!

WOW you actually read my reviews

4 or 5 ???  strange I didn't count that many ......but then again I wasn't really counting

I guess my CBJ's  are that good, that some guys think it was a BBBJ .

If someone wants to know what I do or don't do all they have to do is ask ME !!
First hand source is always the best source . Don't believe everything you read .
Besides TER's Disclaimer does say- "everything contained in this site is a work of fiction that is published for entertainment and amusement purpose only"

Therefore if you want a non fiction side of what I provide , you should ask me .  


For your education anything BB has it's  risks .

Epidemic Rise :

It is estimated that 50 percent to 80 percent of the American adult population has oral herpes. 20 percent, over 50 million people, are infected with genital herpes, and the majority of these cases may be unaware they even have it. Studies show that more than 500,000 Americans are diagnosed with genital herpes each year.
There is no cure to date. Efforts to develop a vaccine by biotechnology companies are ongoing. Until an effective vaccine or cure for HSV infection is found, the prevailing approach to treatment continues to be suppressive antiviral therapy.

You can further your education by checking out site like www.herpes.com

I bring up herpes as an example . Lets not forget there are other STD's out there .

So who would like to be the smart ass and tell me now , well if you worry so much maybe your in the wrong business ??

I don't worry so much , I play safe , have tons of fun and I don't even have to think or worry about anything . My point is you don't have to take risks to have fun .

Everyone can chose to do what they feel comfortable with .I do what I do ( play safe )  but yet I am still in business

I knew my post was going to snowball , but of course it has to anytime I post .
There will always be those few that will have to put their 2 cents in to try to prove something against me . They can't just read what I have to say or make a cool comment like Spinner .

So is there anyone else who wants to say something ?? Go ahead ,  I am prepared .

Be safe , play safe ,
xoxo CindySpice



-- Modified on 9/4/2004 9:44:58 AM

Many don't worry ...........until it is too late.


People  drink and drive which is dangerous . They don't think about it , worry about it ,  they do it over and over ....until it is too late.

you don't have to be unsafe to hobby .

5 years ago all this BB wasn't offered , guys still took part in the hobby , had fun . Who says you have to have a BBBJ to have fun ??

I know a guy who didn't worry , got herpes then he started to worry how was he going to explain it to his wife .

Don't worry , be happy , play safe ,
xoxo CindySpice

"you often if you were even in the same room with some of the reviews you get"

LOL LOL yes very true . But this one was the straw on the camels back ......... I just had to say something .

It would be nice if us ladies could write reviews of our side of the story , yeah it could be interesting

I read that review, and it caught my attention that you bbbj'd, when I knew from this board that you don't.  I gotta get a life.  I actually remember this stuff.

Cindy, no one is trying to flame you. You can go to any web site and find a stat that will backup any comment any of us make. You can go to the web site of the medical school I went to (Johns Hopkins) and I'm sure you'll find something to back you up and I'll find something to back me up, no big deal.


My only question to you would be, do you make the men you see use dantal dam to DATY? That is a much higher risk activity than BBBJ, so I'm just curious.

I didn't mean you were trying to flame me . I know the ones who are by giving their little digs .

As you said DATY puts the guy at higher risk then me . So his choice if he wants to risk it or not . I don't require the client to do DATY .If they want it great , if they don't that is fine too .
and actually where he needs to lick , there is no risk at all .

Besides my sessions focus on something so different that most of my clients don't even care about DATY.
Well some do but they also realize how nice it is just to lay back and enjoy and not even worry about doing the work and  there are many guys out there who don't even care about doing DATY . So between those type of guys I keep very busy

BBBJ puts the lady at higher risk then the guy . So I opt not to put myself at that higher risk.

Hope your not curious anymore.

Cindy baby, I hope you didn't mean me either, you know I adore you and would be in Vegas right now if our rules meshed. It wasn't a dig at all, just really wishful thinking I guess

I was really backing up what you said in your first post in my own special way

B-Pop

BTW Cindy, If I ever did get a chance to meet you, I sure as hell couldn't turn down DATY with you you sexy thing :P

-- Modified on 9/4/2004 9:48:12 PM

No Darling I didn't mean you either
I totally saw your post as backing me up in your own special cute adorable way ...........just as you are so cute and adorable I never have a problem with your posts .

BTW it isn't about turning down DATY , we just get busy with so many things sometimes it is just forgotten .
Now you are probably thinking,  no way how can that be ??forgotten ?? Well sometimes you just have to experience something to understand it .............maybe someday

xoxo CindySpice

All is cool in what you post – it is your body and your life.  Got to take care of #1 first.  I am just surprised you have not asked TER to correct your profile since you have such passionate opinions on this.

And of course I read your reviews ---- perhaps you do not remember --- but I actually wrote one of them.  

Happy Hobbying

Because I have to bug TER a million times till they correct it only for another guy again to put in what he wants and have it wrong again .

The profile doesn't matter . Everyone who contacts me knows what I offer and what I don't . If they are not sure , all they have to do is ask.
Clients who contact me look for something more then just a BBBJ.
so it doesn't matter ! Can you get that ??

You wrote one ? Hmmm  guess I missed that one .

Cindy,

Luv ya dearly!
We had a great time together 18 months ago and I look forward to seeing you again!

But oral herpes (80% of the population has it) is NOT the same as genital herpes.  Oral is HSV-1  and is endemic. Genital is HSV-2 and relatively rare.  They are not interchangeble based on location.

No judgements to present or opinions, just a point of information.
Can't wait to see you again!

You need to do a little more reading on this one. Herpes 2 can be transmitted to other parts of the body and take up residence. It can appear in the eyes and mouth.

Assuming the well known stats that Cindy quotes above are true, then at least 50% of the people participating in this hobby are HSV positive.  That doesn't meant that they are contagious, it just means they have antibodies from previous disease which may have been asymptomatic .  I suspect the percentage is even higher for the provider/hobby population because the stats include those who abstain or are monogamous.  Those who particpate in our "hobby" are likely to have much higher exposure.  I'll bet the incidence of all STDs in the hobby is much higher than anyone will publicly admit.

HSV1 and HSV2 can appear anywhere on the body. HSV1 is more common on the face and HSV2 on the genitals but either can be transmitted to any other location.  They are less likely to recur out of their common locations but the virus is in the nerves for life.  HSV2 is NOT rare.

One more point about BBBJ and DATY.  Applying covers may decrease the chance of getting HSV, however, lesions can occur on other parts of the genitalia, thighs, abdomen, face, etc., so protection is not complete.  The only 100% safe protection is abstinence.

Lots of people are asympomatice and shed virus without sores or other lesions.  This is particularly common with HSV2 in females.  This also explains the transmission of disease from seemingly healthy people.

There are two accurate tests to determine HSV exposure.  One is to culture the virus from a wound however this can be difficult.  The other is a blood test for "antibodies" (IgG, IgM) against the specificic HSV1 and HSV2 viruses.  These can be helpful in determining if the patient has acute disease but will remain positive for life once someone has been exposed.

Mr. O, u r correct.  But, the point was, HSV-1, is common, HSV-2 is not.  I believe u may also know Mr. Obvious that you could catch HSV-2 even if no blisters are seen, so if one is that concerned, they should avoid the hobby.  Thus, an oral sore should not condem someone to be branded as "herpes" but rather as a typical human.