You know I have been an escort for a short time but in the last couple of months or so I have been noticing how rude people are beginning to be. Or have they always been rude and I just were rose colored glasses so I missed it?

In the 8 months I have been doing this I had an older escort try to tell everyone that I was 15 years older than I am among other things.  I have set up to do doubles with another lady who didn’t bother to show up or call. I am sorry but when you charge $500 per hr and then book a 4 hour double why wouldn’t you show up?

But now in the last month I have had gentleman (I am using the term loosely here) constantly no show me and treat me with so much disrespect and rudeness. After emailing at least 20 times and then canceling at the last minute or just not bothering to show up. Or being 2 hours late then when I leave call me and want me to come back, then when I don’t cuss me out. I do have another job and a family. If you are going to be late you can call me to let me know so we can work it out BUT don’t call me 2 hours after the fact.

Then someone calls and wants to see me at a certain time and I try to explain to him that I don’t have that time free what about this time. He gets very angry and wants to know why I can’t see him then. I try to explain that I have another job so it is not possible then I turn the tables and ask him why can’t he see me when I am free, he says something like my wife blah blah blah. Ok exactly…

Also about hygiene. If you show up and I can smell you across the room and I ask you would you like to jump in the shower first please do it I am telling you as nicely as possible that you smell like ass. Do not argue that I just took a shower. So he finally gets in the shower and forgot to use soap so guess what you still smell like ass and I do NOT want to suck your dick or your balls, thank you very much. Soap & water are your friend!

Also have you noticed lately that if you ask a question on some of the boards you get a lot of smart assed remarks and no answer? (this is especially bad on the newbie board) Hey welcome to the community. I used to post a lot but haven’t even been reading the boards lately because of things like this.
I guess mine point is the world is a much better place if you can be nice. Because you know mean people do suck and yes I know the nice ones do swallow.


Thanks for listening now please try to comprehend.

I would have to completely agree. I am writing from Cali as this is where i reside and work but it's all the same deal here for me. Lately, perhaps these are just stressful times however this is no excuse, hobbiests have been no show/calling, expecting the world with a PSE taste on a halfhour special budget, poor communication in general. what happened to the guy who always brought wine or a little something? do any guys TIP anymore for god's sake? gentlemen..... you HAVE NO IDEA how FAR that'll getyou!!  intherelike swimwear!

So you just want to see my boobs. My name & website are not important what I had to say is.

You name and website are important! If you're going to make claims, let us know who you are. Or are you just spewing for someone else? How can you be successful in this business if you want to hide your identity? This is very curiuos.

Rude and inconsiderate people suck. There is no excuse for no shows, hagglers and disrespectful jerks. But take it easy D. there are still appreciative and respectful guys out here who are pleased to bring gifts and tip for a great time with a special lady. I've had them received with either pleasure or indifference depending on the lady.I've also experienced the provider no shows and upsells that we all know happen. So it can go both ways.This is not to excuse the jerks that you speak of, just to keep perspective.

Yes I do realize that providers do no show & upsell BUT when they do you guys can post their name & website here on TER. What can we do? NOTHING! We are not allowed to post their names as no shows. So we just have to sit back and take it with our pretty little mouths closed.

Also touch I am not slamming anyone by name but you seem to be a little defensive in your post wanting to know my website & such. A little guilty maybe.

i completely agree!you are absolutely correct sir! it does go both ways. i just think its sad that, obviously myself and the other provider have used aliases to address a problem that we deserve to have addressed.but because of fear of being picked apart and scrutinized we can't discuss this valid complaint openly with the community. notice no other providers have posted...nor has anyone else agreed that what was afore mentioned(lately it has seemed more hobbiests than usual have no showed, been extremely rude and or cussed needlessly at us, or cheap and expecting a stellar attitude after haggling about $$ , had poor hygiene so on and so forth  with no shame)should be addressed and is a valid complaint except you sir, WHICH I APPLAUDE THANK YOU ! TER,discussion boards specifically, are very much a "boys only" club. most provider's "complaints" are skimmed right over. as i agree it makes me sick some of the things so called providers do(rob, upsell, lie about everything and anything and in a nutshell act unprofessionally) never are any shortcomings of hobbiests mentioned or discussed. i don't see this changing at all soon but  if for a moment put your self in our shoes, and imagine not being able to voice your opionion openly on this board its very frustrating . especially when your dealing with the type of genious demographic like captain obvious "touchmethere"(who is so obviously a guilty party).

You know, I can't agree more.  Each and every time I see a lady, I try my hardest to work around their schedule.  I have seen quite a few ladies, and often times they are not available when I am.  I only schedule an hour and am usually gone by my own choice within 30 - 45 minutes.  I have never been asked to take a shower since I am essentially as clean as anyone could ever be when I come over by virtue of what I do.  I have been offered showers afterwards but generally decline.  I have always felt that If I leave early, there was no need to tip, since I paid for an hour and am gone in half the time.  

It is also my personal opinion that if someone follows the "golden rule" there would never be any problems, which of course holds true for both parties.  One thing I never do is post under my reviewer name just to keep things a bit more secretive.  I appreciate the gals who post under assumed names since they are trying to hide their true identities particularly when they have something controversial to add. (not that this is controversial, but I think you see my point)  Besides that, what difference does it really make?  The above gal stated she is a relatively new provider, so therefore, she has some issues with politeness and cleanliness.  My only suggestion is that she screen a little more carefully for those things that disturb her by contacting references.  That may help to alleviate any potential problems.

Just my 2 cents

Right on. I'd like to add this about my hobby. If I'm not having fun playing around I'll move on to the next available one.