First let me say I am sorry you have had a bad experience.  Personally I do not care what race, age, size, etc a guy is as long as they are clean, mature and respectful.  Unfortunately some ladies have had bad experiences with a certain genre and it causes them to limit their client base for their own safety and peace of mind.  You may notice a good many providers have notations on their websites that they do not see anyone under 35 or so.  Again I am sorry you have gotten to the point of actually having a door shut on you.  If a provider has limitations she should be up front about them.  (At the same time, guys should respect her limitations.  If she says she doesn't do something, don't try to push it, just accept it or move on to someone who does what you like.)

Good luck!  There a plenty of wonderful ladies in Vegas - I'm sure you will find someone to spend time with.  

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First of all, great username!

Second, how about asking friendly providers to send you a PM.

You sound like a good guy.  Good luck!

Re:provider thread

Unfortunately, a thread on who sees African-American men will live only as long as the page its written on.  Some girls have FAQ pages on their web sites which will answer that question, some do not.  I'm sorry you have had such a bad experience.  Personally, I'm with the provider above...I don't care if you're pink with purple polka dots...just so long as the money is green and not counterfeit!

I personally have nothing against anybody, same as the other providers.  I think that if you sound like respectfull gentleman on the phone, and you have provider references than there shouldn't be any problems.  Maybe they are concerned about a possible "warning label"  

There are great, open-minded girls on here.  Good Luck!!

Sorry to hear you have had such an
experience ;-(

Personally I don’t discriminate against any race or age ( as long as they are at a legal age)
What is important is that the guy is nice,clean and respectful.

Ladies who chose not see certain men of a certain race or certain age usually state that on their sites.

Don’t take it personally if a door closes in your face ………. It is their loss someone else’s gain
Just move on,  plenty of wonderful ladies who will be glad to see you.

Why don’t they see these men ?? well each to his own, personally I think it is their loss because I have met wonderful men who are African American/Hispanic/Other or under the age of 35 and they were perfect gentlemen.

There is good and bad in every color and age. If you know how to screen you find the good and always have fun.
I know I do !! *wink wink*
Xoxo CindySpice

Well, obviously by all the post by myself and all the other ladies..........This isn't an issue for everyone.  Just shopping down the wrong the wrong area, open up your search.

For Most ladies a "Gentleman" is the requirement.

My door is always open to a sweet and kind Gentleman

moment1,

First off, as a fellow African-American man, I am truly sorry for your struggles.

In the 10 years I've been in this hobby (despite what my screen name states) I've been very fortunate in that I've never encountered a closed door in my face. Although I have always been prepared for such an instance, and usually (usually) avoid such a problem by either

1) mentioning it myself early on when starting to contact a provider; or
2)assuming on some level that my references would make mention of that fact (because like it or not, it is something that makes us stand out in the memories of some.)

Thorough research is critical, and that can be aided by the proliferation of provider websites. Reading FAQs or bios or other information providing sections of web pages can also aid those of us with extra skin coloring in deciding whom to see (and whom will see us.)

Hang in there, man. You'll find someone who wants to see you, and you'll have an amazing experience.

And thank you to the lovely ladies that have posted their opinions on this thread.