I contacted a provider and she asked for references. Then she asked if my last name was the same on my e-mail and I said yes, and I never heard a word back. Now you wonder if your references get mad because another provider called and they were not contacted by me??? Or you wonder if the providers bad rapped you??? Or finally is telling someone in e-mail that I am basing it on their TER profile such a bad thing they think I am with the FBI(female body inspectors)???
You should always contact the provider you are using as a reference, just to let her know. If I get a call out of the blue from someone wanting to verify a client, and he did not let me know, I do not give a reference. I have no way of knowing if this is your wife, a significant other or who... If a client contacts me first, by email or phone, I will gladly provide a reference as long as he is safe and clean.
That is a very good point. Of course I am not married, but if ever prompted again I will contact them first. Right now I am not in the mood for any more of this, especially if it going to be that much hassle. My best experience is when I called, the provider shot me a menu with prices, and everything was as she stated and I had no complaints. It was all straight forward.
his references didn't meet my standards. All of them were Backpage ads and only one had reviews. He scores are all 5 to 7, she has only been around a 5 or 6 months and her minimum rate is $50. He told me that none of the women that he has seen screened him. I don't consider these women reference worthy. I doubt they even know if they are coming or going. They have put little to no effort into their online business or learning how to do it safely
Normally I require a minimum of 2 references. However, if it is somebody that I know and trust to keep good records, then their word is enough.
PGP works very well and I know a number of people who are happy with it. Although, it takes a few minutes to log into and can be a real dog on a portable drive. That is why I ask people to e-mail me their reference requests. I think the price was only $200 or $300 - less than a 1 hour appointment.
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