Though I am not big on putting up reviews, bascially because I've just been spoiled with my ATF, LJ (new review will be posted from my visit last week), I just wanted to pass on my 2cents worth on mutual consideration. If you're going to seriously seek an encounter with a provider and are not considered a regular with that person... be sure to give references when requested and follow-up to "confirm" the meeting. The provider , just as the hobbyist, deserve it. Their time and ours is important, so give the courtesy, as you would like it in return.  It just makes it better for everyone. If you're new to a provider surely you can understand them being cautious.I am quite sure that you as a hobbyist don't want to be jerked around or stood up. Afterall you,, the hobbyist" is the one taking the first step. So lets all "play well together" and fun and good times can be had by all.