For me, it's not the specific activities of the encounter; it's the attitude of the lady that makes it for me.  

The two women who provide me with what I consider the epitome of a GFE are cindy Spice and Kathy Willets.  They provide very different experiences from a standpoint of what happens during the time spent together but both leave a smile on my face that lasts for days after they have left.

DrX

PS: I apologize to the other wonderful ladies that I see when I can; I felt that listing the other 3 names would just confuse the issue.  I'll make it up to you the next time we manage to get together.

As a provider

I consider myself to be a perfect GFE. It takes a special lady who can create a unique and comfortable experience for the client. Someone with whom they can relax, converse, and enjoy the closeness of their intimate time together. It's like having the girlfriend for the moment without having the obligation to call her the next day. Knowing only needing to call when that urge is there and needs to be taken care of.XOXOXO

Re:Definition of GFE...?

Good Conversation,
Talking, Laughing, Singing ,
Dancing                                             Intimate..     Hugs and Kisses,
Playful Lovemaking,
Dancing , Dinner,
Sharing All The Best Things life has to offer

Re:Definition of GFE...?

I can start by telling you what is NOT GFE:for me that would be "mechanical"unemotional intimate relations,with a minimum of foreplay and affection.The GFE should approximate what you would actually do with a girlfriend.This may include foreplay,kissing,etc.I can't speak for anyone else,but this is what I look for,it makes me feel more comfortable.Another guy may be looking for a PSE-wild frantic sex with no affection whatsoever.WHATEVER turns you on!