Out there. BUT ,

Do you want real or fake ??
What you want is more then just sex . You want true passion and intimacy.
Hey who doesn't  

But let me bring you to a small reality check .  
why men are from mars and women are from venus .

For an example - A man let say starts to cheat because of a physical need .  
Later it may be for more then that , but  USUALLY it starts off because lack of physical .  

A women who cheats , starts cheating because of an emotional need , which later can turn into more .

I am just using this as an example to explain the difference between men and women .

So sure you can find plenty of fake passion and intimacy and you may not even know it is fake .
because the lady is so good at what she does , or there is another factor ( not going to say what it is , as I don't want people to take what I say the wrong way ....... since they do ,LOL LOL  but anyone smart enough will know what  the "other factor" is .....and I mean other factor for both ends    

OR are you looking for TRUE passion and intimacy . If you want the real deal , well no matter how horny and nympho a lady is , she will still need some type of mental connection , or FEELING to arouse the desire and passion for you ( or anyone else )  

Feelings come with being attracted to a person. Attraction isn't about looks .
It can be your mind  , your personality , your sense of humor , it can be anything that causes that person to feel desire and passion .

Time and getting to know a person is what creates the women to develop these feelings of desire  
to TRULY be passionate and intimate.  

That is why longer dates make the experience more connected .
Many gents think - well I am not paying to watch her eat ........ they are not getting that during dinner the lady is getting to know the gent .  
That is developing a feeling making the experience more passionate and intimate .

That is why first meeting even if it is only for 2 hours , while the man just wants to get it on because DAMM she looks so hot hot hot . Well yes we know men are visual  
The lady needs to find the connection to FEEL ,so she can truly go on and enjoy the time together  
for real , with out faking it .
So while the guy thinks Blah blah stop wasting our time with chit chat ........ he isn't getting it .
If the gent wants more then just physical pretend sex , the women needs to feel connect .

That is why one hour is never enough .
That is why two hours isn't really enough.......but not everyone has the time or budget for longer.
That is why I personally do some things to create the connection and feeling before I meet a gent.
and even then if I am meeting him first time , I still need to talk a bit to reconnect with him.
but mind you I am talking about gents that I get to see first time or maybe only once a year .

When a gent sees a lady on a more regular base , that connection and feelings are already there  
so the women has the desire and passion to just rip your clothes off and want you NOW !!!
FOR REAL , not because she is getting paid to do so ......... do you  ( anyone who is reading this post ) understand the difference ??

Then you have this thing called TRUE CHEMISTRY . It is there or it isn't .
you can't create it ( you can fake it ) you can't buy it.
For a man because he is visual , it may start out with looks ,but it continues because of other things.
For women , it isn't about looks . Men think it is , but it isn't . I thought so too until one day    
I was with a male model that from the outside you would think  
wow that sex will be off the hook . He is HOT HOT HOT !!!  

but it wasn't . It wasn't about his looks or personality ( which was sweet , nice down to earth exactly how I love my men ) .He was smart ,fun .....He had all the qualities that I adore in a man .  
it wasn't about technique  or lack of technique ...... but for some reason the chemistry just wasn't there.
Next night I met a gent who looked like George Costanza  ( from Seinfeld ) and WOW  
fireworks !! So go figure .  

Chemistry is there , or it isn't .  

Now while I get that you want someone who you contracted for 2 hours but stays 5 and then even forgets to take the envelope home .......but with that also comes great responsibility .

There is a reason Charlie Sheen says - I am not paying for sex  , I am paying her to leave .  

While it is building your ego when she does that  ( forgets envelope ) .
her lust , passion and desire is building into LOVE .  
Are you ready to handle that ? You may think you are , but you really may not .
and even your ego may start turning into love or maybe not .

but as in any type of relationship ( not just this type of relationship ) if the relationship doesn't feel equal . If one person feels they are getting less then they give , then someone will end up getting hurt , or angry.

Why do you think in affairs that start off just for fun . That is all that both parties ever wanted just some fun .  end up being so painful and hurtful ( for all parties involved ) but even more so probably for the women .  
because the women gets to a point where she feels used , she feels like a "hooker" ...... she just didn't get paid.

It doesn't matter how horny a lady is or even if she is a full blown nympho , at the end of the day  
there is a need to feel connected.

That envelope helps keep feelings and emotions in check .
If a man is emotionally unavailable .
and I don't mean only because a man is married .Single men can also be emotionally unavailable.

A real man , who doesn't want to hurt anyone , will understand that he is really paying for her to leave .  
and while I get it , the no envelope feeds the male ego , as a gentleman he should look for his ego to be validated in other ways . and there are plenty of ways .

OK Oprah , now where is that talk show you promised me  
Critics , fire away  *wink wink*  
xoxo CindySpic

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You are such a PIG!!

So you've obviously been paying attention to my "sexploits".  You just forgot to mention the part where SHE leaves an envelope for ME!!      

oink oink

I've had my best 2 experiences with ladies like that.

First one in Vegas where she was booked for an hour but stayed for 5 (my incall).  Only "did the deed" once but just had a great time hanging out and no pressure to leave.

2nd time balls to the walls, booked an hour at her incall and after 3 times and 1.5 hours she told me "you aren't going anywhere you haven't taken my ass yet."  Wow, just wow and she is retired...