Posted By: thefoozler
Sorry bigguy, but you don't seem to read all that well, either. SU said nothing about not having fun in the hobby; your simply putting words in his mouth. Nor did he say that the providers he saw weren't having fun. He simply said that their primary motivation was money. This is true for most of us, not just providers. Lucky are those who truly love their job, since it just doesn't happen for most people.
While the two are not mutually exclusive, having fun is secondary for providers, well after security and money. Talk to most any veteran pooner, anywhere in the country, and they all will tell you the same thing. Actually, they'll go even further by telling you what many providers actually think of us... but I won't go further, since I don't wish to burst the bubble you've been living in, LOL. And attempting to rebut any of this by referring to your sexual prowess or dick size will merely get you a horse laugh in return.
And please don't misconstrue my comments as an indictment of providers. Most successful providers are great at what they do, namely fulfilling our fantasies. As for me, I have a lot of fun in my sessions, and the fun usually goes both ways... and I take it for what it is, namely a great time that was had in the fantasy world. What I don't do is bring reality into it, simply because they did their job well by making me feel like I'm the man. I liken it to a Don't Ask-Don't Tell policy, as there are certain questions that really don't need to be asked or answered.
Posted By: bigguy30
I mention it's about $$ and gifts, in my earlier comment. So I guess you miss that right smart guy? I would suggest reading first, before you assume!
If your hobby experiences sucks, that is on you and the providers you pick.
Also I don't have to prove shit to you. I am living it and know what works for me in this hobby.
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