NBL is public list and should be reserved for DANGEROUS criminals.  For men who threaten our safety and lives.

Putting some schmuck on it for chickening out will negatively impact all other providers.  There are OTHER private boards and DNS lists to deal with issue like this.

Whether we like it or not, this is part of doing business. Every business has its losses.  In ours it is cancellations, walk outs, wasted cab fare, time wasters and "campers".  You put them on DNS list, give them Do Not recommend on date check, report them to Gina and move on.  When you hear from such guy again (and you will) you request non refundable deposit.

By putting time waster on NBL you make it harder for all of us to screen the next client as well as make this list virtually useless.

Ok...
Im so livid right now words can not describe!
I had a pre book today at 2:30 from a white listed member on this site...
At 2:15 i call him to let him know im on my way, no problem there.
I made it to the hotel 6min passed 2:30 (the cab driver took the longest way he could!)
I call him to meet up at the lobby like we said: NO ANSWER, ok, so im waiting few more minutes, call again, leave a voice mail, again few minutes after that and then the phone goes straight to voice mail...
I waited 30minutes thinking maybe the phone died..
NOTHING!!!

You got to be fuckung joking!!!
I went to bed at 8am, woke up at noon to be all cute and ready and THIS????
That actually made me cried, i couldnt belive someone would actually be that fucked up to pull something like this!

WTF?

Does something like this ever happened to other provider?
Would ypu just stop answering your phone over 6minutes???
I consider that im dealing with an adult when i book with a client, this is a little teen age boy attitude and i cant believe he is on the white list?
Should i contact the admin and let them know?
I will black list him on the national black list but what else can i do so this doesnt happen again to another provider?

Been there done that & never again we are reputable, so a deposit is needed to secure my time.

Sorry, but live & learn you did not mske the top rated list over night!

xoxo mucho amor mas besitos

You're late for an appointment (which you  confirmed you'd be there) and you're going to blacklist him?

It's my understanding blacklisting is for clients that are dangerous or hazardous to providers. Not for a guy that doesn't answer the phone after you fail to show up on time. But then again what do I know.

Ok...
So from now on i will stop answering my phone if my clients are 6min late...lol im sure that would fly right???
Come on Now, i kept him updated every step if the way, im in the cab and i told him i was lil behind schedule, so not answering his phone is more than rude.
Worse case tell me you dont want to see me anymore but dont just stop answering your phone when you know im all ready on my way!!!
6minutes??? Come on now baby, its vegas and its sunday super bowl week end, making it 6min late is actually very impressive!
Especially that im making the effort to come to you, pay for the fare and all that for a mother fucker who doesnt have the courtesy to even answer his phone???? Again, this is a contract between 2 adultes!

How would i look as a provider if i stop ansering my phone over 6minutes?????? I dont even want to imagine what kind of review i would get!!! Well same for you, he messed with my day, with my business and with my feelings so i will put him on black list NO QUESTION ASKED!
and if anyone desagree OH WELL! dont stop answering your pho,e and waste a gorgeous girl time and u wont end up on it!!!!

Aww, you are so sweet!!!
I would like to take on the offer but honestly at this point, even the game won't put a smile on
My face, I feel like this all thing was a joke!
That really put me down and ruined my all day!
I'm always very enthusiastic to make a date happen, I take time to get ready and I always do everything to make everything perfect so when that type of shit happen, it reminds me that there are guys out there with real bad intentions and could care less about how this could make me feel
But we are just hookers right? Who cares about what we feel?
As long as we know how to fuck and shut up?
I'm so over this!!!'

You have a PM

So 4hrs later, i finally get an "apologie" saying that is pretty new at this and chickened out...
Omg am i in the freacking twilight zone right now???
I think the worse about all this is that i really did look extra cute and woke up extra early for it, i wasnso enthusiastic to pake it happen and the dude chichens out???

I know most of you think they dont owe us any explanation, but we are respectable ladies and when you know we are on our way to you and decide to turn your phone off, well just keep in mind that this is lowering yourself down to a level that I didnt know existed...

He knew i was on my way, so what if you nervous??? Let me know you change your mind, text me not to bother anymore...but letting a lady wait at a hotel lobby for 30min and not saying anything is CRAZY!!!!

PERIOD!!!

You're right. I was wrong he sounds dangerously flaky and in order for other woman not to waste their time with this type of client, please blacklist him.

As for what would have happened if the shoe was on the other foot (I've been stood up twice). After leaving you a voice mail, a text and a polite email inquiring why you NCNS. I would have waited a minimum of 24 hours for a response and then posted the problem on the local board. Regardless of what preparations I would have taken for our encounter, I would have waited at least a day to give you the benefit of the doubt. But that's my standard.

You have a much more compressed time-line, so put him on blast and let him deal with the repercussions.

I was on my way!
He knew that! So why wait 24hrs when he obviously knew what he's was doing since he "chickened out..."
Between 2:15 and 2:36 what could of happen? Him falling in the toilet hole? (French expression...)
Come on, it was just a FREACKING joke...
Let me wait in the lobby for 30 min?
You got to be joking me!
I live gentleman I have no respect or compassion for pricks!
My time is valuable, just like anyone's time!

I agree with dddbabe's comments regarding the appropriate use of blacklists and getting stood up.  Rather than focus your energy on a rant, just ask the guy for a cancelation fee.  I have read of providers getting something back on this board.  The guy's excuse is lame, but if he wants to continue in the hobby, he has an incentive to offer something.  Being nice about asking is likely to get a better result.  It is a business decision, take the personal offense out of it.

I would also point out that your rant on the board damages your own reputation.  I don't know if I would have ever contacted you for a date, but I guarantee you that I will not now.  Shit sometimes happens that is no fault of the hobbiest. Everyone on occassion loses a cell phone, gets stuck in traffic or oversleeps.  You'd put me at risk for career, SO relationship and other issues based upon a no show?  That's a provider I don't need to see.

providers flake guys flake it happens nature of the business.Yes it is wrong to waste anyone's time but to nationally blacklist over a no-show is very extreme in my opinion.Add the guy to your personal do not see list and back channel this info to providers so they know this guy is a flake.
Blacklisting for no-show,bad review scores,cancellation with enough notice,and the list goes on all of these reasons are not a valid reason to add a guy to a blacklist that will come up in a google search.
Just like dddbabe said this list should be reserved for dangerous guys not a flake.
Do you realize how busy the board here and everywhere else would be if a provider or guy every time they got cancelled on ranted about it on the board?The boards would be full of these kind of threads.

This gentleman is VERY sorry this happened to you . I don't have any answers for you .

BUTTTTTTTTTTTTT

I for one disliked reading this sentence .......I happen to treat each lady as a LADY and human being !! For her to come over and fulfill a fantasy and simply be so incredibly beautiful is something I forever am indebted to her for !

I just simply disliked this sentence - sorry .

Baby boy
Did you keep in mind that I CONFIRMED with him 15 min prior to the incident?
Wich mean:
One minute is good, no problem... 15 minutes later no answers and then straight to VM?
Come on now... Anyone heard about the word manners? And gentleman?

So if voicing out the situation on this broad is ruining my reputation: OH WELL!
I rather deal with gentleman who is on my side and can put himself in my shoes anyway!
This was rude, unconsiderate and I stil think that future provider who will deal with him needs to know he is a fool and his attitude was out of line!
Again! Imagine if me, as a provider I would do that??? What kind of "reputation" would I have then!?

BTW: you really are missing on serious ouh lala baby...so I guess it's your loss hen?

Kiss kiss

Ok
We are NOT talking about a no show here!
We are talking about a set up to a total prank!
He KNEW I was on my way, I updated him every step of the way as I always do so the guy knows what's going on and when to expect me...
So he stop answering as soon as I got to the hotel he was suppose to give me his room number
I will never know what his room looked like lol
So here I am, waiting for HH thinking his phone died...
Nope, nothing and no answers until 4hrs later telling me sorry he chickened out
Well could he chickened out BEFORE I was in the cab and ony way and not chickened out ONCE IM ALL READY HERE

Big difference between a no show and THIS...
Unless I'm crazy???

I think that if you had JUST ranted like many do, I think people would have understood.  You chose to put him on a blacklist of some sorts for a totally rude (but not blacklist worthy) action.  You threatening with that action for a perceived "trivial" occurrence, lost you a few potential clients.  

People would wonder what they could be blacklisted for, if they were to see you?  IE: you don't like their clothes, cologne, they actually take the full hour they are paying for, they don't tip you enough afterwards, god forbid they give you a review that you don't like. These reasons are just as foolish as blacklisting someone for blowing off an appointment.  Rant-yes, blacklist-no.  Maybe you were just "ranting" about blacklisting the person, with no intention of doing it.  But the perception is there, & damaging of your persona.

Yup...

Hobbiests are going to be real attracted to you.  You'll no doubt be beating them off with stick.

Calm down.

Build a Bridge.

and get over it.

Frenchie.....its clear he got hit by a bus in those 15 minutes. No man in his right frickin mind would turn down a meeting with you.

This again, is why I require a 50% deposit to book.  Never again, will I was my time regardless, if they are whitelisted, or not.

Exactly... you don't know much.

Blacklisting a client is OUR deal and you don't have a clue as to anything other than it is only for dangerous and "hazerdous to providers" ??  Isn't danger and hazerdous one in the same? Synonyms mean anything to you??

You know damn well if this were a hobbyist and the shoe was on the other foot,  your ass would be all over said providers ass.  

BTW:  Among the National Blacklist, Danger 411, P411, Date-Check you name it.... there are many valid,  credible and EXPECTED reasons to blacklist clients.  I'm not going to make you privy to all of them, Captain Woman Hater on the board as usual.  But, guess what?? This client classifies ALL DAY ON ANY BLACKLIST FOR BEING A:  TIME WASTER.   Yep, that's grounds all day buddy.

This should be strictly on the Provider's Only Board, but, it's not and that's ok.  Just helps to shine an even more lovely light upon you and how your mind works.  Shocking you didn't hide behind an alias this time.  But, what do I know.

Ashley Jade

it is part of the business!!!things come up we cannot control!!
every provider knows that thre will be some, especially in vegas