No disagreement from me. Indeed, I send courteous replies to almost all who send me PMs in response to ISO. I might miss sending a reply now and then, for reasons like lack of site access at that time.
Posted By: Alan Shore
Some guys don't bother to politely release a gal from her business offer. Some men are pricks. Though they may not all be in the same group, there tends to be a subset in there someplace.
I looked at your 9/12 post (your first?) and I don't see any criteria for body type in your request. I may be missing something, but it sounds to me like you got an honest response from a gal who read your ISO. Be cautious of judging skills implied by physical appearance: The lady may indeed be the best at providing tantra, or at least she thinks so. Unless you specified a body type or look in your request then in my opinion you got a valid answer.
It's certainly not a requirement to answer every PM, but if you're the one asking for gals to contact you it's polite to do so. A simple "Thanks for contacting me. At this time I've found someone that seems like a best fit from the responses to my ISO." If you get a lot of responses, just cut-and-paste and push send. If you don't have access to PM, state that in your posts and then reply by the same means the gal uses.
In Sep 2015, I posted a message seeking tantra massage. I received a few PMs. One of these was from lady who stated she was the best in providing tantra. When I looked up her details, I found that she is a heavy-set lady in her mid-forties, and specialized in bondage and sadomasochistic service. She did not interest because I was looking for a younger provider and a more sensual and gentle massage.
I try to respond to all PMs, but I might have missed responding to this. Also, I do not always have access to TER PM messages.
Do providers feel entitled to receive responses to PMs and get upset to the point of running a crusade to tarnish the reputation of a client by making it a full-time job asking others not to see this client simply because he ignored her or simply missed sending a reply?
I reply to all PMs with respect and politeness. In this case, I missed sending reply. She keeps sending messages to other providers saying I wasted her time and I would waste their time too. How much time is spent is wasted by sending a PM, but not hearing back?
Some guys don't bother to politely release a gal from her business offer. Some men are pricks. Though they may not all be in the same group, there tends to be a subset in there someplace.
I looked at your 9/12 post (your first?) and I don't see any criteria for body type in your request. I may be missing something, but it sounds to me like you got an honest response from a gal who read your ISO. Be cautious of judging skills implied by physical appearance: The lady may indeed be the best at providing tantra, or at least she thinks so. Unless you specified a body type or look in your request then in my opinion you got a valid answer.
It's certainly not a requirement to answer every PM, but if you're the one asking for gals to contact you it's polite to do so. A simple "Thanks for contacting me. At this time I've found someone that seems like a best fit from the responses to my ISO." If you get a lot of responses, just cut-and-paste and push send. If you don't have access to PM, state that in your posts and then reply by the same means the gal uses.
No disagreement from me. Indeed, I send courteous replies to almost all who send me PMs in response to ISO. I might miss sending a reply now and then, for reasons like lack of site access at that time.
Posted By: Alan Shore
Some guys don't bother to politely release a gal from her business offer. Some men are pricks. Though they may not all be in the same group, there tends to be a subset in there someplace.
I looked at your 9/12 post (your first?) and I don't see any criteria for body type in your request. I may be missing something, but it sounds to me like you got an honest response from a gal who read your ISO. Be cautious of judging skills implied by physical appearance: The lady may indeed be the best at providing tantra, or at least she thinks so. Unless you specified a body type or look in your request then in my opinion you got a valid answer.
It's certainly not a requirement to answer every PM, but if you're the one asking for gals to contact you it's polite to do so. A simple "Thanks for contacting me. At this time I've found someone that seems like a best fit from the responses to my ISO." If you get a lot of responses, just cut-and-paste and push send. If you don't have access to PM, state that in your posts and then reply by the same means the gal uses.
While I don't know many of the ladies on TER personally, I can say that the ones I do know would not spend their time essentially cyber stalking an uninterested gentleman. To answer your question regarding PMs, if I reply to an ISO post I do not expect a reply back, nor do I get offended if I do not get one. I simply assume, for whatever reason, that person is not interested and I do not take it personally. I doubt a provider who would respond in that manner would have many (or any) positive reviews if that was how she decided to do business. I hate to feed your unsettled feelings, but is it possible it's someone else who is sending out those emails? Good luck and happy holidays:
As I said, I reply to most PMs received in response to an ISO. Once in a while, I might miss doing so for lack of access to the site or another reason.
When I send a post message, I include my website. You asked for Tantra. Even though I offer Tantra, I understand that there are many variables that could be a deal breaker including how much you like what I have written about myself and my services as well as how appealing you find my look. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'm not movie star gorgeous, no silicone implants or acrylic nails, no tattoos and I don't offer Greek. I'm tall, blonde and pretty. I get it that my audience is a very thin slice of the pie. If I don't hear from you, I assume that one of those factors was a deciding factor. No offense taken. Here in Vegas, we have a very big box of chocolates. You get to pick the kind you like the very best. Still, consider you taking a bite of of each
Fact is, despite this grumpy old woman's campaign, 16 women sent PMs in response to my ISO. Many said, "sorry this happened to you, I am available to kiss and make you feel better." This shows how much weight (that too) this woman's carry among her other ladies in the community and they see her game of ruining their business.
To be as insulting and ridiculous as you're being and carrying on the way you are, it is not helping at all. And if that many other women responded wtf are u complaining about? Grow up and move on. Let it go buddy....because the production you are putting on is doing the exact opposite of what you want. It is turning providers off and making us all not want anything to do with you. There are far more intelligent and effective ways to go about this, ur making an sad of yourself and proving her right.
if you have 16 messages from providers desperate enough to see you after all of your countless rude posts. Why are you still posting?Shouldn't you be getting laid right now
Fact is, despite this grumpy old woman's campaign, 16 women sent PMs in response to my ISO. Many said, "sorry this happened to you, I am available to kiss and make you feel better." This shows how much weight (that too) this woman's carry among her other ladies in the community and they see her game of ruining their business.
On reading your responses, including this one above, i really have no idea why any provider would want to see you.
Man up and grow a pair, if you can't do that then i suggest you take your bucket and spade and go play in the sand pit.
May take a "while" to respond to. I "recently" replied to all of mine after I submitted a new review. The PM's I replied to had been waiting for about 5 years. I could write more reviews for 15 more days of VIP, but I am choosing not to, so for now the PM's in my inbox will have to wait a bit longer. I HAVE paid for VIP access in the past but choose to discontinue it for personal reasons not relevant to here.
Bottom line, no you're not required to reply to every PM unless you really want to
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