I don't know if there's one simple way to try and raise a red flag on a sketchy inquiry, but I had one that made me uncomfortable. I've left Vegas from a visit and feel a bit compelled to warn others, I was contacted by the person through CityVibe.
The inquiry itself involved two guys wanting to see me simultaneously, which is enough to make me nervous. They then said another guy joined them. And they had no escort references, which I'd want from all 3 (not that seeing a group of only men is something I'm remotely comfortable with as an independent) They were more concerned with warning me about their huge size, asking if I see black men, and explaining why they had no references while attempting to reassure me they were nothing to worry about.
I hope these guys don't have bad intentions, it's just that, while I may have dodged a bullet, I hope they don't succeed in making an appointment with someone else, it doesn't sound good. I'm confident they'll have no luck, but I know some girls out there don't screen or don't screen enough. When I turned them down they said "I hope your decision wasn't concern about us" Well....it mainly was, compared with an individual.
I was in Vegas on vacation and opted to mainly not work cause of inquiries like this, it seems more dangerous than my city on a day to day basis.
You get used to dealing with it here. This one was quite mild in terms of it's "sketchiness", hehe.
Certainly never let anyone "reassure" you that they are safe to see.
You did the right thing no doubt. Usually when someone mentions their "size", they are just time wasters, and have no intention of following through with an appointment anyway.
But I wouldn't trust men I don't already know. It's really hard to find 2 guys that will get naked together!
anyway, thanks for the warning, I think it was a test, they wanted to see what you would allow. I don't know if it was LE or not, but there are a lot of people who would be interested in seeing what a lady might do.
Also, I don't think they were gonna follow through. I think it was a guy masterbating and thinking about you and the fantasy and got a free phone sex. That's why i don't give out my phone number. I get sick emails, guys said, I want to go around the world no condom, unprotected everything blah blah blah, I just delete it. He even sent a picture of himself. Whatver I don't have time to care. There are plenty of real and nice men who will find me. AND They will have the time of their life!
Speaking of screening: What is the best way to make sure a man is who he says he is? And isn't going to be dangerous? Should I get that background checking service?
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