I've had great success in Vegas over the years, but have had a flake or two (OK three or four) here and there in other cities though. The NC/NS topic does seem to be coming up a lot more in the recent past here on this board. I had a veteran hobbyist with a long list of LV reviews contact me about it out of the blue a few months back in fact.
I don't know...schedule doubles maybe, which I'm actually considering for an upcoming trip. Increases the odds that at least one lady shows up I guess ( - : Sorry it happened to you, I've been there too. It does suck. MfS
Just got stood up by a well reviewed provider. Got screened and appt set up two days ago, email and text communications were friendly and enthusiastic. This afternoon, I sent a text saying I was looking forward to the appt tonight. No reply. Time of appt, I text her again several times followed by an email. No reply.
I don't want to out the provider at this time because it will hurt her business and there may well be a good reason behind the no show, maybe her phone got stolen. I am hoping for an explanation or apology tomorrow.
I understand readily forgive last minute cancellations as shit can happen. But no call no shows are just so unnecessary and totally uncalled for. Why not just text saying, "hey babe, need to reschedule?" Is it really that difficult to be considerate of others.
I've had great success in Vegas over the years, but have had a flake or two (OK three or four) here and there in other cities though. The NC/NS topic does seem to be coming up a lot more in the recent past here on this board. I had a veteran hobbyist with a long list of LV reviews contact me about it out of the blue a few months back in fact.
I don't know...schedule doubles maybe, which I'm actually considering for an upcoming trip. Increases the odds that at least one lady shows up I guess ( - :
Sorry it happened to you, I've been there too. It does suck.
Since you are using an alias, I have no idea of your experience. All I know if you choose to see escorts, no matter what city, experiencing a NCNS is bound to happen. Some will say it happens more often in Vegas than other cities , but it's almost impossible to prove it.
You could always go the agency route in Vegas. There are 2 highly regarded agencies in town and they're a good backup plan or first choice.
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Just got stood up by a well reviewed provider. Got screened and appt set up two days ago, email and text communications were friendly and enthusiastic. This afternoon, I sent a text saying I was looking forward to the appt tonight. No reply. Time of appt, I text her again several times followed by an email. No reply.
I don't want to out the provider at this time because it will hurt her business and there may well be a good reason behind the no show, maybe her phone got stolen. I am hoping for an explanation or apology tomorrow.
I understand readily forgive last minute cancellations as shit can happen. But no call no shows are just so unnecessary and totally uncalled for. Why not just text saying, "hey babe, need to reschedule?" Is it really that difficult to be considerate of others.
With all the hobbying I have done in Vegas and elsewhere, it's only happened to me 3 or 4 times. Most of the providers use burn phones. When they run out of minutes, they have no way to reach you, particularly if you are texting. Some of the more seasoned ladies have a regular non burn phone they use for business. I had that happen to me with a provider I have seen many times, and she was highly apologetic.
That having been said, there is still no excuse for it. If you are in this profession, you need to be professional.
Yes, burn phone running out of minutes is possible. But email is always available. You are right, being professional means being respectful of other people's time. This provider is very young and probably not at maturity level to understand that you don't treat people this way, let alone clients. NCNS is the height of inconsideration.
So I followed up with a text and email today at 4pm to see if she wanted to offer an explanation or apology for standing me up last night. I mentioned this discussion post and BINGO, instant email response!
She blamed it on being too busy and that her life and school always comes first. She said I have been actually texting and emailing with her assistant (who was masquerading as her unbeknownst to me, how creepy and disingenuous) and that this assistant failed to confirm my appt with her at all, hence the no call no show. Of course, this does not explain why the assistant did not simply cancel the appt with me. SMH
My email response pointed out that her website portrays a very genuine and professional courtesan who seems to put her clients' needs first. How ironic.
Anyway, she ended the email with this quote: "...if you feel you have been stood up sorry for wasting your time"
Worst of all, there was no attempt from her to suggest another appt. I thought she would at least try to make things up to me by rescheduling. Nope.
At this point, I am moving on. There are other great ladies in town who are professional and courteous even if they are busy folks. I know this provider is not indicative of what Vegas has to offer.
So she wrote back again saying that she has fired her assistant and that she is very professional and it won't ever happen again. Then she threw a parting jibe saying that she did not offer to see me to make things right because I have been aggressive and she does not know me.
At this point, I am done with my responses. But she needs to know the difference between professional and unprofessional.
Professional response = so sorry, it won't happen again, dropped the ball, let me make things right Unprofessional response = life and school comes first, it was my assistant's fault, "if you feel like you were stood up then sorry"
Posted By: niceguysfinishlast
So I followed up with a text and email today at 4pm to see if she wanted to offer an explanation or apology for standing me up last night. I mentioned this discussion post and BINGO, instant email response!
She blamed it on being too busy and that her life and school always comes first. She said I have been actually texting and emailing with her assistant (who was masquerading as her unbeknownst to me, how creepy and disingenuous) and that this assistant failed to confirm my appt with her at all, hence the no call no show. Of course, this does not explain why the assistant did not simply cancel the appt with me. SMH
My email response pointed out that her website portrays a very genuine and professional courtesan who seems to put her clients' needs first. How ironic.
Anyway, she ended the email with this quote: "...if you feel you have been stood up sorry for wasting your time"
Worst of all, there was no attempt from her to suggest another appt. I thought she would at least try to make things up to me by rescheduling. Nope.
At this point, I am moving on. There are other great ladies in town who are professional and courteous even if they are busy folks. I know this provider is not indicative of what Vegas has to offer.
The provider has reached out once more and this time sincerely apologized. She explained that the assistant, who apparently she is on the outs with, purposely screwed with her communications so she would lose clients. The provider has since terminated the relationship. She apologized for ruining my evening and accepted that it was not acceptable from her part.
I got the apology and explanation I originally sought. I received assurances that it would not happen again.
BUT I did not get any service recovery attempt either. No "let me make it up to you" at all.
To providers out there, if you actually stood a first time client up, and it was your fault, would you make an attempt to recover that client? For example, a reduced rate first meeting or a complimentary something?
To clients out there, if you were stood up, would you expect some form of service recovery? Or would an apology suffice?
I know in the provider-client world, the rules are a little different than in the business world.
In the end, I have decided not to out her on this post because she has made a real attempt at apology. None of us are perfect and we have bad days so I'll let this one pass.
I had a lady cancel on me day of a few months back, but not in Vegas. The dog ate the e-mails (like 10 of them) apparently. But she did answer my text promptly when I asked her WTF, was very apologetic, and did offer a make up session at a reduced rate. I couldn't take her up on it as I was traveling through her city and leaving the next day.
Does she owe you some type of restitution NGFL; she doesn't seem to think so.
To providers out there, if you actually stood a first time client up, and it was your fault, would you make an attempt to recover that client? For example, a reduced rate first meeting or a complimentary something?
I've never stood a client up, in fact I've never even cancelled an appointment. However one time I was up all night prior to the evening of an appointment due to a family emergency and when I went to my call I was exhausted. Round one was over pretty quickly and we were snuggling - I promptly fell sound asleep! The client didn't want to wake me so he just laid there while I slept for a good 90 minutes. I felt so bad! I offered him a half-price session next time to make up for it.
So yes, I think that somehow if I stood someone up and it was my fault, I would offer some form of compensation. However that speaks to my sense of responsibility and the way I run my business - I can't imagine a scenario where I would stand someone up.
Someone who is less serious about their business and their commitments may not feel the same way.
I prefer to deal directly with the lady when setting up time. It's more personal and takes one more link out of the communication chain that could get the appointment request derailed. That said I know some escorts are going to employ assistants.
It sounds like you weren't aware that it was actually her assistant (masquerading as her) you were communicating with...that is disingenuous.
Sorry to hear that. It sucks for anyone to get stood up. It happened to us recently with an experienced hobbiest. It doesn't matter what side of the relationship you are on, the lack of courtesy is disappointing. Don't lose heart. The vast majority of people out there are kind and respectful.
I agree there is no reason for communication to stop and to leave you hanging. It takes just a moment to send a text. Hopefully you were able to find another provider while here in Vegas.
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