Hey everyone ..I have a question....as you already know I am new to Las Vegas...I just arrived from Boston...and just put a bid on a house...so I am here to stay anyways..today I recieved a call from another provider from the Florida area... she stated that one of her clients had asked her for a reference  so that he could see me when he arrived here in Las Vegas...she stated that he(who shall remane nameless) was awful...that he was very generous...but was involved in LE ...that I should stay away ..blah blah blah... so obviously that would make me very apprehensive to even take his call...now..after hanging up..I had more time to think...and I am wondereing if she was being nice to warn me..or mabye she is upset one of her clients wants to see someone else...if he is so bad..why has she seen him... and why would he ask her for a reference...do you think I should heed her warning..or is she just jealous and wants me not to see him????how can you be sure in a situation like this..thanks in advance

Many things to consider here...

The reputation of the provider who has called you...

If he is involved in LE, what is her associataion with him, where is his jurisdiction, will affect you here in LV?

Has he contacted you yet? If so, see if you can politely get another reference from him.

I would do my own research regardless and screen. Even if I get a reference I generally do my own anyway. There is only 3 girls in this universe I would trust enough to go solely on thier word. Cindy Spice is one of them.

I know you to be very popular and successful in Boston and I am sure if you use your instincts and the abilities that got you where you are, you will be fine.

All of the women I have encountered here in LV are great for references by the way. I am sure if you have any questions or need for them, we will be happy to help you along the way.

The fellas here are great and helpful as well. Let me know if I can do anything for ya to make your settling in any easier!

xoxo
Brooke

It has always been my experience that when a provider does not wish for you to see one of her so-called clients, she will generally ignore the request.

As you stated she saw him and she supposidly has information about him that makes him less than desirable. She didn't say she had seen him more than once. If she had, then a red flag would definately go up. In this business I would think it would be a good idea to heed her warning.


I have had gents I did not particlarly (sp.) care for use me as a reference. In these cases, as with all others, I was very honest. Unless there is a hygiene problem, a seriously bad attitude or a problem with the business transaction itself, my references are pretty basic. Yes he is legit, he is not LE and he does not negotiate or try and rip you off. The thing is we all are different and if you adore one gent he may not be someone I care for and vice versa.

There could be many variables to this scenario. She may have underlying motives, he may not know that she has information on him or they both could be playing games. My advice is to err on the side of caution and NOT see him. Trust me honey, it is always better to be safe than sorry and telling by your pictures and the wonderful things people have had to say about you, you will have no problem establishing yourself here in Las Vegas.

Good luck Doll, e-mail me if you have any questions.

xoxox
lass

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first, you have two really great women offering good advice. That is cool. Second, I'd pass on the guy. Even if she is trying to keep him for herself [doubt it], it's pretty obvious that LV has a lot of outstanding and outrageously gorgeous ladies, he'll see someone else if he doesn't see you. But judging from a events in the last couple weeks, it's probably a bad time for such a hot girl to be taking any extra chances...

I think it's sad when a provider will ignore a request from another provider just because she believe it's her so-called client! After all ... why would she be asking for a reference?  Could it be the so-called client wanted to see her?

and it happens all the time. Some ladies feel as though when a gent sees them, they should not see anyone else. Its assinine I know, but it happens none the less.  One of the sophmoric quirks about this industry.

One of the members of the sorority should be able to help you out (although, like the CIA, the will not confirm or deny its existence).

BTW, welcome. Vegas is so different from New England, it may take a while to adjust. There's good and bad, but I have found living here generally more than tolerable. Even when it's 107 outside!

Thanks so much for all the answers...especially Celtic Lass..before I even moved out here I checked out the boards and loved your website..I used to run an add in Boston with the title " Irish Lass" anyways I am trying to be so careful..I did some furture checking and found out that the provider that called me was on "the up and up" so I wont see him....I just bought a house here and I definately dont want any problems ....I am getting so many calls for incall and I was warned to stay away from those...but... I think I will be starting to do those..but.. just being very very careful.... I had a bad asthma attack Monday night...so hopefully I will be better  by tommorrow... and thats one of the main reasons I moved here..lol to get away from the humidity...I figured I'd leave my asthma back in Boston....no such luck... again thanks so much for all the insightful answers to my question