So...
I arrange for a provider to meet me at my hotel. She arrives on time and I go down to greet her and take her up to my room. We get on the elevator and there are three other people riding with us. The provider turns to me and asks "are you in town on business or pleasure?"
We are riding up to a hotel room and she is asking why I am in town in front of other people? Seriously? I could not believe those word exited her lips. She may as well have rubber stamped the word "hooker" on her forehead.
The other female occupant of the elevator actually hit me as I was exiting the elevator.
Why would any provider want to engage in such conversation in front of unknown third parties? Comment on clothing or the weather, but do not have conversations that indicate a couple of strangers are heading to a hotel room together.
Thats messed up. I've had pretty good luck with discretion except one time. This provider had a driver who is a taxi driver and I walked her out to the front of the hotel for her to catch her ride and he wasn't there yet and their was a line of people waiting in line for a cab. Then she says out loud to the bell hop guy if she could stand over here cause she had a driver. I said good bye and just left cause I wasn't gonna stick around for people to look at us. I personally thought that was dumb of her.
Anyway with most well reviewed providers I've had nothing but good luck.
are not the sharpest knives in the drawer. You have folks ranging from really smart to really stupid and unaware. My guess is she was just trying to warm up with small talk but did not consider the public nature of the situation. Probably did not even realize she was doing anything wrong. Some people are perceptive some don't have a clue. Some are totally aware of their surroundings and others are completely unaware. But in my experience I have found that most highly rated providers are very bright, perceptive and have really good gut instincts. Was this one highly rated?
I have a client ask me in a jam packed elevator (loud enough for everyone to hear). "So have you worked in Strip clubs before or just online'?
I really wished the elevator would have just fell to the basement.I was so embarrassed.
What happened to you is Crazier.... WT??
How did the rest of the night go when you finally got to the room?
I really wished the elevator would have just fell to the basement.I was so embarrassed.
Jeez you'd think being a little paranoid would go hand in hand in the hobby. Paranoia at least a little bit isn't always a bad thing. But even if you're not the lol "sharpest knife in the drawer" who just doesn't get to stfu until you're in the room.... terrible.
I would have turned to her and said (out loud, for everyone else to hear): "Pleasure, and why are you here in Las Vegas?"
problem with that is that if she really was dim she likely would not have had the intellectual werewithal to respond properly and either give you a "deer in headlights" stare or worse, say something like "well I'm here to be with you of course".
I would never engage in this kind of discussion this is something that should have been asked behind closed doors.Like some of the replies already said some ladies get discretion and some do not have a clue.In a few instances some guys do not have a clue as well.I had a gentleman I saw some time ago we met at a bar where it was very crowded get our drinks and he proceeds in a voice that is very loud to ask me about TER and my website.I leaned in and very quietly told him that is a discussion best left behind closed doors.I think he was embarassed but the people next us sure were looking our way.
Some are discreet and some do not know the definition.
This is Las Vegas after all. Visiting guys are expected to partake. She could have been a loose civilian for all they knew anyway.
At least she didn't ask you for the envelope.
I agree. Who gives a rats ass what anybody thinks! For me, because of the large age difference, there's no question what I/we are up to, arm in arm with a young hottie. Well, except for the time that one of the gals was dressed up like Nancy Drew, with glasses and a long coat. LOL Actually, I enjoy watching the different reactions that I will see in an elevator ........ and it's often hard to not react with a shit eating grin on my face. I do watch what I say, however ........ but I guess I should be prepared in case of a gaffe by my date.
And if a woman in the elevator were to hit me as I was exiting the elevator .......... well, I probably would have said something like this, on the way out: Ouch (in a loud voice, shaking the body part she hit); c'mon now, there's really no need to be jealous!
At least she didn't ask you for the envelope.
The problem with the lack of discretion is you don't always know who is listening in on a conversation. Do I care what strangers think? No. But, if that stranger is a busy body who mentions something to hotel security, I care. If that stranger turns out to be a colleague that I meet for the first time at a convention the next day, then I care.
I hear you, but I gotta think the odds are pretty long for those scenarios.
But didn't you wish you had said something to that rude woman? Or was she smiling at you when she hit you? LOL
I didn't look at her face, but it did not have the feel of a love tap. Both providers and hobbyists need to think about what they say and where. We were less than 2 minutes from being alone in the room and able to speak freely without anyone else hearing.
I met a gent at a high end restaraunt and as the hostess is about to seat us he hands me the envelope (not a card) and says I suppose you want this now rather than when we get to the room. Are you kidding me? lol
In an elevator I have been asked the following:
"So I guess business must be great out here in LV for you to stay and not be back home with your family. I thought the convention business had tanked." This was last year when the economy tanked. 2 other businessmen were in the elevator just eyeballing me and I really thought about just handing them my business card.
Seriously?
Was WITH my dad at the airport when a client walks up to me and says Hi Sara. WTF? Thank god my dad is hard of hearing and never heard the name. I took a deep breath and under my breath said I am with my father and this is NOT a good time. Ya think? lol
So you can't teach common sense or etiquette so you just have to realize that your reaction will make it better or even worse and always be prepared.
To I think mine and your point. There are folks that get it and those that do not. I can't even imagine walking up to a provider I had recently seen in an airport to say Hi!! Even if she were alone I would never even consider that. (and of course who knows who is alone or with others in an airport setting). But, as I indicated earlier, there are a lot of really smart, really stupid, and just generally naive folks out there. And, to that end, your point about always being prepared is good advice because you just never know what is in someones head.
I actually had the same thing happen to me, with those exact same words. I wonder if its the same girl? It didnt really bother me all that much. 1 I was gong to has sex with a really hot girl and I have no doubt the guy in the elevator was wishing he was too. Second, you see it all over town. Guys walking around or hanging out with women that is nothing other than a business arrangement. You are in Sin City and no one cares. You just have to be ready to answer a question like that and role with it.
Some of the stories told here are much worse than yours. Besides, it makes for good reading material.
Are you Going to post a review on this particular person??
Tough to say on this one... I've actually had that happen to me but it was a "Hook-Up" and not a GFE that had been planned out...
It's Vegas.... Hook Ups happen all the time...
HOWEVER... if your "experience" was planned out and with somebody claiming to be GFE... No excuse for stupidity...
"Why would any provider want to engage in such conversation in front of unknown third parties?"
Obviously somebody not so bright... and obviously somebody I don't want to trust having my information that she's going to have pasted on her forehead...
I reviewed some of your reviews...
Bianca Beauvais ?????
Really???? You obviously plan things out ahead so this was not a "hook-up" encounter...
I'm really, really intrigued on who the particular provider is so I can AVOID them...
Thanks!
This provider actually came to see me after I was stood up by another provider, so I'll give her cred on that issue. I do like to plan ahead, but lately my schedule in LV has made this difficult. The provider in question does have a history of good reviews, so I am disinclined to trash her over one incident. I'll will avoid her in the future. If you really want to know, PM me.
If they say something stupid in Korean no one will care.
thats why , my favorite way to meet a gentleman is right in his room if he is so concern about being seen in the public ...some ladies like to spend time 15 minutes walk thru the casino and the elevator with a gentleman to easy things out , I have no need for that , I rather spend that 15 minutes giving deep tissue massage ...yeah...i do work hard
I don't mind it
...well , if a lady going to the casinos and hotels everyday FOR WORK , I am sure she can ask for used inactivated room keys from other gentlemen . Every time I ask , they all give it to me , I have about 50 room keys in my secret draw
and at least 10 in my bag or car... I am it and i am in it with all of my heart
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another option is to follow other hotel guests , or just simply shut up and follow quietly ...some culture don't talk a whole lot in the elevators , so its okie to SHUT UP and follow discretely from a distance
HAHA
You are being generous using that word. I'd say it fits more like retarded.
"Hookler stamp" ready for forehead and STAT material for sure. Oh, have the friggin crash cart ready too. IQ could flat line and reach a negative reading. Worst part about that is she'd still be making "small talk" too. No flat line for the unlucky hobbyist right??
SHIIIIIT!! How damn embarrassing.
My heart goes out to you darling. This last trip you had here was severely lacking.
I love ya though and hopefully next time is better for you. BTW- Which was it? Business or pleasure.... never got the answer and I'm dying to know. HA HA!! Sorry, I couldn't resist. Totally joking I promise. ![]()
Love and Light-
Ashley Jade
