email allows me and the lady in question to read and respond when it can be done discretely. Phone calls are very intrusive and even if you use a hobby phone it still has to answered and the time may not be appropriate due to SO or other reasons.
Even for the phone contact I prefer texting to calling, for the same reason as above.
question for all... is it wrong to want to to talk first on the phone and not just e-mail? computers can be a bad thing! yes or no
thanks the help
rhm
No it's not wrong to want to talk before your session. But the ladies make the rules, By restriciting contact to email only, the ladies have control over the communication flow with the hobbyist. Many newbs in an attempt to contact an escort, will call so often, they "blow up" the lady's cell phone
Many escorts who request email only, will also request a phone conversation, after you've been screened. If you don't like the email only scenario, I suggest you find an escort who doesn't mind starting with a phone call.
You're right to be concerned. Email allows them an easy way to keep a record of your real name and personal email address. Despite what they say, many do keep "permenent" email records along with other information about you and your preferences.
And despite absurd claims otherwise, this information is hackable, discoverable, or otherwise available should something happen. Do you really think they are better at protecting your personal information than corporations that employ security teams?
I'm not saying you can't do the same with a phone number but it's much easier to create a trail with email. Lots of guys are willing to take this risk but it is a risk nonetheless and much greater than the risk associated with a phone call.
being a hot female with naked pics of yourself posted on various websites. You'd be inundated with phone calls, many of them losers that don't intend to do any sort of business at all. It's asking too much to want to chit chat off the clock. Make an appointment and you can talk all you want...
Thats why I prefer emails and sometimes I cant talk on the phone due to being around people that dont understand the hobby.Some ladies will chat back and forth in an email then a phone number is given.,
on top of that, most of us do not do this as our main job and cannot receive phone calls out of the blue. I am email only, I have my smartphone set up to receive email so I can reply right away and most guys I deal with have the same problems and wish to communicate via email only.
you have to do what makes you comfortable.I am Email Only until screening then I will provide my phone#.I do like to have a quick chat before meeting if it is a new friend.There are many ladies that have their number listed along with their email address.I found when I did have my number posted there was too many time-wasters and many of the times I could not talk at the times of the calls.So Email first and a quick phone chat works for me.
I would have to agree with the ladies here. I prefer gentlemen to fill out my contact form, but I do accept emails over phone calls. I've gotten tired and have given up of asking the various sites to remove my phone number, only to have it reappear a few days later.
In my experience most calls are from men out just looking to waste my time by asking questions that could have been answered by just reading my website, only to hear them say, they are still not sure when or if they are coming to Vegas and just wanted to hear what I sound like.
Then I get the calls from scheduled gents just wanting to chat and get somewhat upset when I cut the call short because they can't understand that I have a personal life outside of entertaining.
After I have completed the screening process, I do provide my phone number and sometimes call a few days before our scheduled get together to soft confirm our appointment, and let him know he is free to call if his plans change for any reason. I have found this method works very well for me.
If being able to get in contact with me is a concern, emails always get to my phone and are much better than a spotty-dead-signal cell service.
I also have to agree with hiddenhills, "The ladies make the rules", so if an "email only" policy is not your cup of tea, there are plenty of other fine ladies that gladly take phone calls you can contact.
Just my opinion, have a wonderful Sunday,
Cassandra
having a phone chat with the gentlemen that I am going to be meeting. I know that I feel more comfortable when we finally get together and it doesn't feel so much like meeting a stranger. It's more like getting together with a long lost friend or lover! I have turned a few people down because of the phone caller being disrespectful but that is rare. It's nice to get an email first asking about availability and in my response, I ask for them to call me so that we can chat. It works out great for me!
I always, always prefer ladies who have an "email first" or "email only" policy. My window of time in which I can make personal, private phone calls is limited due to both work and home constraints.
Email is much, much simpler.
email allows me and the lady in question to read and respond when it can be done discretely. Phone calls are very intrusive and even if you use a hobby phone it still has to answered and the time may not be appropriate due to SO or other reasons.
Even for the phone contact I prefer texting to calling, for the same reason as above.
I find it more convenient and less akward than leaving a voicemail and getting a call back at a really inconvenient time.
After a few email swaps we usually move to phone conversations....it is nice to hear her voice before meeting...it helps to get a better sense of the person.
Just my $0.02 worth.
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