Most providers are secretive abut what they do for a living.
Their friends and family dont know.
Of course when we date guys (as in .. a real relationship) we rarely tell them what we do for a living.
while I personally frown upon providers ditching set appintments for higher paying gigs last minute ( I NEVER EVER do this myself) - we ALL know that with many providers money talks...
So, as I briefly mentioned on the night of its occurrence, I was stood up in the worst way at Aria this past week. We have all been screwed over before, on both sides of the business, but this was the worst. My provider was late to begin with, but as discussed I waited at the hotel bar, drinking my Jameson.. waiting for her to show up in her Blue Dress w/ Black Heels. After 30 minutes passes she says she is pulling up now.. My anticipation grows, and i continuously glance over my shoulder to see if I can spot her in the busy casino crowd. After a few minutes I stand up, walk down the stairs onto the main floor of Aria, and see a women that meets her description physically, wearing a blue dress and black heels, talking to another man. I creep on them for awhile, and can tell it was two people who just ran into each other... catching up... After a few moments his hands are all over her, and they start walking to the Sky Suite Elevators together.
I texted my provider, or who I thought was my provider, and got a reply that she is here walking towards the bar. Guessing it was her agent/friend/whoever.... She obviously never showed up.. nor has she returned my texts since.
I dont want to out this outright out this lady on the forum.... But if you are interested on who it is, PM me. She is latin, has a couple of good reviews, and use to go by a different name.
But.......does not make this any more acceptable. Certainly gives us some idea what to expect from this provider going forward. You can bet I would NEVER make an appointment with her............there can be no excuse for what you describe as a complete lack of consideration.
Can think of a whole host of reasons why providers/hobbyists may have to cancel. But it should be once in a blue moon and there should be communications both ways. The fact she ignored yours says volume about this incident.
Hope this does not reflect on your perception of other providers in Las Vegas. Can tell you first hand there are more than an ample number of amazing ladies here.
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I honestly don't mind being cancelled on.... if you give me a lil more than 5 minutes notice... My schedule is a bit hectic when i come into town, and I am sometimes a little last minute when looking for a provider. When you leave me sitting at the bar, waiting and waiting and never respond... after just telling me you are walking in..... leaving me trying to contact other ladies at 12-1am, that pisses me off..
Mainly I suffer from last minute, or after the last minute cancellations. I think it must be because I always book one or two hours and the provider gets a better offer. Still pisses me off. I have not been active in years, since I went under the radar with my dates, instead of using a "provider". But now that I am back in the game, I hope I do not run into that too often.
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Same thing happened to me this past week with Rachelle. I sucked it up though, but was disappointed. Oh well....
I would have seen you!! Please contact me next time your in town.
Do not see this member ladies!! He is law enforcement!!!
I tell my provider friends that I really appreciate the fact that they follow through with their commitments. I would rather have someone cancel and tell me the truth…something like "I just had a 4-hour date request and I was wondering if we could reschedule" or "I just had a weekend request and I was wondering if you wouldn't mind working with me to reschedule"…I am a smart guy and understand that a 4-hour date or a weekend date is more profitable than a 2-hour date…so I respect someone that would ask and I would be more than happy to accommodate any reasonable request…but to listen to some of the crazy cancellation stories…is disappointing. Just give me 1-day notice and I will work with you...
I feel your pain...So far in 2015 I have been stood up more than actual dates happening ( only 1 lady showed up out of 5 ). This has really taken the fun out of the hobby for me. While I understand that a last minute booking for 4 hours is more revenue than a 1 or two hour date, I believe that a commitment is a commitment. Afterall I have never canceled a date because I found out 1 hour before that an other girl, just as hot and fun, was available at a cheaper rate... it goes both ways..mutual respect is very important.. but perhaps I am just an idealist...
I'm with you, a commitment should be honored. Accommodating guys who butt in at the last minute with a multi hour request by cancelling on a existing appointment is wrong. These Buttheads are just trying to cut in line, and know full well what they are doing here... how about planning ahead like the rest of us. LOL
As for me, I have a zero tolerance policy for this. Those who cancel on me on appointment day are dropped from my rotation and go to the bottom of my list. And the ones who cancel at the last minute, after I have taken my meds, will probably never get a second chance. While they will make more money that day, it may cost them in the long run.
Maybe it's because I have not been on the boards as much as normal but I haven't seen one complaint from you of being shown up.
Those numbers are crazy... the days of TER truly being for hobbyists in Vegas seem to be in a challenging mode right now because 10 years ago.... NOBODY was scared to post about the flakes.
Cheers!
Dude, it's always been that way.
It works the other way too. Guys will book something, then blow some stupid number in the pit and either don't feel like a session or have enough cash for one
Most providers are secretive abut what they do for a living.
Their friends and family dont know.
Of course when we date guys (as in .. a real relationship) we rarely tell them what we do for a living.
It is entirely possible that she was enterng Aria, saw an old or current flame (you said yourself it appeared they ran into each other but knew each other) and she had no way to back out of going off with him and was unable to text you lest she reveal what she was actually doing there.
it COULD happen.
On the other hand.. it could just be she ran into a former "client" who pays better than you and twent for the money grab.
while I personally frown upon providers ditching set appintments for higher paying gigs last minute ( I NEVER EVER do this myself) - we ALL know that with many providers money talks...
And she's a major flake and the money grab is so much like her. Nice try but nah....now she's back in SLC, hopefully for good so let her fuck with the mormons.
It's not exactly like there are no Mormons in Vegas. Which reminds me, almost every LDS girl I've sessioned with has more or less fucked me into a coma. Those girls have quite a few moves I know Joseph Smith didn't teach.
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I can't believe this member's post, falsely stating inaccurate information about what really happened that night!
He is obviously affiliated with law enforcement, as he never gave me references to verify, and it was my fault for choosing to meet him without doing so.
There was an undercover Asian cop waiting for me at the entrance upon walking in the Aria, he never put his hands on me, he simply asked me what I did for a living and after responding to him I was a massage therapist, he flashed his badge on me and forced me to hand over my ID.
If you were truly a civilian, and truly creeping on me, you would have seen this happening and it wasn't the elevators we walked to, LOL, it was the booking room!!
So many other people there saw him do this to me, and was incredibly humiliating.
I had to move away from Vegas as I am no longer allowed to step foot inside of any MGM owned property, I can't even take my family to Circus Circus, what is the point of being there?!
And @hypoglky, you too in the past have accused me of seeing a member "ilovewomen" right before I was to meet you at the Aria, so I chose not to see you based on bad vibes. I almost wonder if you three are in connection to my misfortune that night, and all affiliated with law enforcement.
To top it all off, the cop was making sexual jokes at me like it was the cool thing to do.
I'm going to report your post to TER, as this was truly unfair and extremely hurtful!