and could help you out... but I wanted to comment on the part where you had become "buddies" with a lady then get your heart broken..

It's funny how we do that some times. No matter how much we know in our heads that it is a business relationship, if you see someone over a long time enough an emotional attachment is created, and any subsequent separation actually has emotiona hurt.

But THEN, in a day or less us guys are looking for another one.  

Doesn't take long to get over that hurt eh??

LOL

Ah hell, if you could talk them into a menage a trois, that is what I would suggest.

of course you may have to buy a defibrillator!