I know, I know... when you are in a deal like this,  that is the last thing you want to hear and I'm not just trying to be THAT person.

However,  I had a vengeful woman/provider go as far as to have a reputable hobbyist write a full of shit review of me and it's on my profile.  Check it out.  You'll see it because it sticks out like a sore thumb.  Because he's considered "reputable" with white lists and all,  TER let it stand.  He won't pull it, I was told after they "investigated" the facts that their decision is final and she got her little dig in which I'm sure tickled her pink and I don't even like to think about the damage it's wreaked on my business as a provider to date.  

So,  it could be worse and I sympathize 100%.  The flip side and positive aspect is that it was on a discussion board and it will get buried in the archived pages as time goes on and it's NOT on your permanent profile forever.  I am not trying to do you one better "Whoa is me!" thing here at all.   However, be thankful and glad about the placement of it for sure.   YOU know the truth and that will come across to anyone who interacts with you if you carry yourself the way you ARE and not the way somebody slandered you as.  Chin up even though it hurts your heart first and the salt in the wound is that it hurts your business second,  it will blow over.  Also, bringing the bad press to the boards doesn't help.  I learned from experience that some of these morons who've never met you will take it, twist it, and stab you with it.  They stamp you guilty and liar if you try to publicly clear your name.   For some asshat ignoramous tools the minute you do that, it stamps credibility on the slander and makes you guilty. It can turn into The Scarlet Letter of Shame type of thing.  Remember, a lot of people haven't seen it and drawing attention to it will only increase the volume of potential clients etc. that WILL see it had you not done that.  It's not fair and it isn't good, but, this too shall pass.

And to said reviewer mentioned in my personal account above ,  Hig---07 , or whatever your user name is,  I hope it was worth it for you and you got a sweet deal because what goes up must come down.    
Then again...
I wouldn't know.  Given the user name... what are you?  About 4'11"  or so I heard?  Just grapevine talk and we all know how reliable that is...Hilarious in retrospect and I hope you woke up taller the next morning.  lol

Cheers and stay safe and true to yourself lady.

Love and Light-

Ashley Jade






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As frustrated and angry as Im sure this made you, taking a deep breathe and ignoring it is the best plan in the long run. Im betting most high quality providers have had similiar instances that left them saying OMG...WTF???
Focusing on it wastes valuable energy and time.
Secound, no one will really remember in a few months ...seriously..things move along to fast today and attention grabbing posts just drop off the screen..never to be remembered..
Until that happens just let your actions and performances speak for themselves...You''ll do fine and  be amazed at how it Just Dosent Matter Anymore...
Best wishes to you Angel..

My ex's ex found out what I did and told his family. They hated me.

Over time they realized she was the crazy one and think I am strong and maybe even slightly envious or encouraged by my independence.

Wow, so I saw this girl ages ago and it was a pretty decent experience.. I was looking for a companion about a week and a half ago and Decided, yes,  even after I had seen a few negative things posted about her- to give her another whirl.. BIG MISTAKE!!!!
Her reputation may have BEEN good then but I regret to say that what I've been reading recently actually sounds very accurate to her current status..She looks pretty run down... She is more scatter brained than ever... This boyfriend she refers to in original post she told me was basically her pimp. He beats her up (unless she gave herself the bruises which I don't see that as possible..not to mention it was the sob story she gave me while in session) She rushed the whole session after being over an hour late and was not into at all.. When we first met I thought we had a pretty good connection.. What I think is immature is that this woman was seemingly a bright (although talkative) and classy lady upon our first visit.. I have quite a different opinion now, however.
I still wish her the best but as a hobbyist I have to say that I would NOT recommend seeing her in her current state and restoring her reputation isn't exactly what she is doing, sadly.. she seems to be destroying it worse with her posts blaming this "ex friend".. which sounds like to me obviously that its a cover or there is more to the story than she is telling. That's irrelevant in my opinion.. personal is personal and business is business..  
 Happy Valentines Day!

Thanks for taking the complete look at the situation and giving some great advice. As a participant in sex we should all know that having sex is like playing Russian roulette. We don't know the partners anyone has been with in their past. All we can do is protect ourselves using proven methods and getting routinely tested for our own benefit. Even the nicest, cleanest provider or hobbiest could have something hidden in their past. With that said everyone have fun and be safe.

As far as the bad review goes. Its like Ashley said it will eventually go away on its own. And if you are providing good services with a good reputation the rest of your reviews will reflect this information and the bad review will be discounted as someone being vindictive in their review about you cause they didn't get something the wanted or are just trying to hurt you.

So have fun..

PS. Hey Ashley I said Vindictive above or should it have been vinDICKtive....   LOL