Has IMs from a user telfred123@(not adding which email was hosting).com

Initial contact is looking to say hi, then asking to watch me and another girl do her husband.
The IMs continue for some time until I realize she is fishing to see if her hubby has already visited me by mentioning she found me and my site on her man's computer. On December 12th she first made contact claiming they wanted a 2 night overnight for 8k as a 5 year anniversary gift. She claim she was his sugar baby prior to marriage. I told to send an email with screening info and that I would not IM until I saw the message. No reply. Nothing. Until today.

Today it's a NEW story. "We will be in Vegas next week" I reply me too and she acts surprised (not like I don't have ads up or the info on my site). She requests a three way with me and another provider and her man saying it's a 23rd anniversary gift and she was dared to ask. At this point I recall the prior IMs and look up the history. I play along and finally determine she is trying to see if I have visited with her man or not. I ask for his information to verify them and she won't send it. Finally I tell her the gig is up and I am aware she is fishing for info and to give me her hubby's email and I would see if we had communicated or not (I was not going to tell her either way as I respect clients privacy). Instead once I have his email I forward the IMs to him and warn him he may be exposed.




I'm not sure if this is a common thing with wives and SOs snooping but please:
- password protect your computer and hobby line
- no hobby line? GET ONE
- do not use handles that can relate to you at all (no zip, area code, name, pet name etc)
- do NOT assume your wife or SO doesn't know. be cautious anyway!