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"Oldie" VS a "Newbie"
april_luv See my TER Reviews 1161 reads
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Let me clear this up right now ,Oldie as in a gentleman that has seen a few ladies in his time.

Let me take this time to point out why some of us girls really dont see the newbies .
Over the last week or so I have had a few no reference contacts .Thats great and all but i have had one gentleman get very offended when I told him I could not see him due to lack of verification.he didnt want to share any personal info at all.Totally understand that part and him wanting to keep this private .
It has been 3 days now and he is still emailing me not wanting to shar any info.

To the new Gents ,we were all new at one point and it took one of us on either end to go out on a limb and see the person with no reference or no review.Please  just respect it when you are not able to meet with a lady for whatever reason.

If you are willing to share info you can 9 times out of 10 see one of us but if your not willing to work with us ,how can we help you ?

I hope that the Gent  understands the saftey factor here .

CindySpice570 reads

Also no need to be offended because off the top of my head  I didn't remember you.......
After all I saw you once , 6 and a half years ago..... Hello I don't keep records. You should be happy about that.

If a lady wants a reference she should give me more then -
well you saw him in 2003 and you were his first.........
Ummm Ok you just described almost everyone that I saw in 2003. :-)
 
Since I am newbie friendly if you want me to remember you from that far back you should email me to refresh my memory BEFORE the fact , not after the fact and then gossip about how offended you are. Seriously are you kidding me ??


So "oldies" also need to learn some respect.
And yes newbie if you don't meet the ladies screening criteria , don't take it personally and just move on.

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Lovely Lorena559 reads

I understand your quandry about the safety factor yet, sometimes you need to take into affect that prior to the technology boom.. 2 references  from providers was not as easy as a an email..
you are entitled to your form of verification yet, maybe you may want to consider when asking for references from another provider please remember that we dont always keep their information on a computer or somewhere that can be recorded..
that is out of safety for the hobbyist ..(though I have endearing code names .ie: kingpin..for very memoreable men/couples)
there are many other techniques of verification that may be helpful to you. the lady above has been a great mentor to me and possibly you can ask her for a bit of help so that you dont lose out on all the great "newbies" that are entering this hobby..
yes, its a chance taker but so is anything in life that is worth going for..
if you look at many of my reviews you may notice I was one of their first reviews..thus, leading them to see some many great ladies afterwards..
I personally whitelist as a form of recognition that they have a great reputation /or were wonderful hobbyists to me..and have shown great care towards others in a respectable manner(this is not against anyone.. some men dont whitelists).. now also check the dates  because no one can be liable for the course a life may take or the trials and tripulations that cause a change in their mannerism..
Stay safe ,be kind, be helpful , stay doing a great job and all should follow for you..you appear to have a nice way about you april plus i love your thin pretty bod!!
Thank you CindySpice for sharing that scenario.. sometimes people forget that we are human too. unfortunately providers feel that we are trying to hold back work out of jealousy .when in fact we are only trying to be honest and look out for all parties involved
much love to you lady!!
Sincerely
Lovely Lorena

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BoyToy4U430 reads

took a chance and knew it would be safe and totally worth it. And it was a thorough screening. But now i have a few references.  Only one time I wasn't screened, but I wasn't worried about it cause I knew the lady was well reviewed.

For some reason I still consider myself a newbie. I don't wanna be an "oldie".

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april_luv454 reads


Thats the motto we live by here

Posted By: BoyToy4U
took a chance and knew it would be safe and totally worth it. And it was a thorough screening. But now i have a few references.  Only one time I wasn't screened, but I wasn't worried about it cause I knew the lady was well reviewed.

For some reason I still consider myself a newbie. I don't wanna be an "oldie".

Sharing is Caring

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Crazy Diamond297 reads

The part about not sharing personal info...not smart.  Yes, privacy is important, but if I were a lady, I would take that with a grain of salt.   Dudes who hide themselves are going to be one-timers...is it worth blowing off repeat or regular clients in lieu of seeing someone new that might remember you the next time he visits?  

Personally, I generally share enough info so that whenever I contact a lady, I almost always get back a positive response.  This isn't a difficult game to play if you work with the ladies...

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