You tell the provider your Bob Smith and you work at  the XYZ Co.  The provider calls and asks for Bob Smith at the XYZ Co.  She may tell the receptionist she's confirming a dental appointment for you or some other story, it's pretty harmless. The lady really doesn't care if you're a lawyer or a waiter. Just remember, show up on time for your date,  be clean, be a gentleman, and have the correct donation correct. You'll be fine!  You should check the FAQ for Newbies Board, and read the self help center

It must be extremely difficult to hand over such vital information to someone you've never met or know anything about, privacy and discretion is key these days....for you and for us

For those new to the industry it's hard getting established,  just like it is for the providers.....how can someone vouch for you when you've never seen anyone?   How do you get whitelisted when providers are hesitant to see you because you have no references, etc.

Why not utilize Roomservice 2000, Date-Check, or Preferred 411.  Roomservice 2000 (RSK2) charges a lifetime fee of $50 and if you don't want to use your credit card, send in a money order!   Preferred 411 (P-411) is a little more but they'll all suffice for our screening and it's discreet, quick, and rather painless.  

Once you sign up, you're pretty much good to go and it makes that ugly screening process hassle free!  You'll be quickly on you way to why you're here in the first place!  To have fun and get lost in the rapture of a beautiful companion!

Sorry, I don't care who they are or why they want it.  No provider will ever get my employment information.

So if that is a deal breaker for some then so be it.  Unless of course they want to provide me with a picture ID and their social security number...