I see so many men on here requesting extended hours or overnight nights....I was wondering does it always work out that way.

For guys and gals....

1. Have you even booked an extended date (dinner date, show date, overnight)....Where 30 minutes into the date one of you realize that this is just not going to be a fun date ?
2. Do you still go through with the date, or cut your losses and leave ?

Personally, I doubt I could commit to a longer date, unless I had met the person beforehand and we were compatible.
 
"Stress Test":  Would you be able to have dinner without looking at the cell phone ?

As for a Lady:
I am sure all of you have stayed at most hotels in Vegas, dined at the high end restaurants, done at the Tourist stuff (shows):
1. What would make a date intriguing for you.?,  

 
Just living vicariously through the Vegas board, dreaming I will eventually get back to sin city.

Happy New Year everyone:
"a very merry christmas
and a happy new year
Let's hope its a good one
Without any fear

Because I always did a shorter appointment with a lady to make sure we were compatible, before booking an overnight or a Vegas weekend. Mi dos centavos.

MfS

because extended dates are always arranged after spending time with the provider. Providers will tell you they've had great extended/overnight  first dates and no doubt they have, but for me, I'm not going to spend that type of $ without have spent time with the provider

It could be your first time vacationing to a specific destination.

You can read all of the reviews for a city, you could pick the best hotel.. Dine at the five star restaurants..  

Many factors contribute to having a good or bad time. What if you arrive to the beach and it's raining? What if you eat the local food and get good poisoning? What if the neighbors in your hotel are having their first nights out away from home and haven't learned how to respect others? The list goes on..

If you choose to have an extended date, both parties should have an extended list of topics to talk about. You may love golf, but if you just played your worst game and I bring it up it's not going to be a good discussion topic..  

It's all about customer service. If something goes wrong, we should be able to change something to fix it. :

I agree with most in that you have to spend shorter times with the person first before you do an overnighter or even a weekend,just to see if you "click". Now I've had weekend dates where the first day/night is great but by the second day I can't wait to get rid of her........she was probably thinking the same about me. Now I really try to stick with overnighters, if she's the right person.

Getting to know someone the first time is paramount to having a great time on a subsequent longer encounter.  MFSD knows of what he speaks, and so do others below.

I've never had an overniter but would like to sometime.  I have had extended hours and had a great time.  But, in those instances we had a shorter date first and had a great time.  I can't say that I have met anyone that I couldn't wait to get rid of no matter how long they have stayed...

(Thank you posting question, it has made me think and caused me to "re-think" my party goals.)

Yep, been there done that, and as much as I participate here, I'm still learning many lessons the hard way.  Luckily all the fails have been rescued simply by returning to the room. It's amazing how a singular common interest fixes so many problems.  

But seriously this time I'm doing it right. This time it will be purposeful.  I think I need to approach it like i'm conducting interviews. I'll be looking for my dates when I return later this year.  

First I have a short of list of (new) ladies I want to ask for long dates when I return for my week long vacation. Second, I have read their reviews and web sites.  Third I will make it a point to find them and spend some time with them at the M&G.  Up to now I've been chasing the "balls and bubbles", like a kid in a candy store.  Also I've gotten too caught up in finding something "that night".  This time I'll be thinking long term. If something happens, great, if not, I still will have accomplished my goal.  

But yeah, to answer to your question, when it happens, I just take a deep breath, relax and explain how I am feeling; and then I ask, "as the client I would like to ...."  Each time she froze for a second, then everything changed like magic.

Then we went back to the room

I had one big fail on an overnight, it was actually our second overnight together. She had too much wine. She left the biz so her heart wasn't really into it. I did initially start with her on a 90 minute session.

No woman should have to sleep with me again, apparently I sore like a bear. But I have had a 6 hour date, we did dinner and theater. We had fun before dinner and fun and relaxation after. I would never consider scheduling that long of a date with a woman I haven't been with numerous times and have a level of comfort with.  

I get that it's an arrangement, and she's with me for a donation, but with some women there is a level of respect and companionship. I've been with a few ladies that the action is awesome and I've repeated but I couldn't see spending that much time with because we didn't connect at all in that respect. Nothing wrong with them, just simply not a connection.  

So no, I've never spent that much time with someone without an assurance that it will be fun. My general rule is first dates are 1 or 2 hours and then I'll know if I want to invest that kind of time (not money, time) with her again. I say time, because if I were to date a civie again, the first date or two would be short as well. I'm a work-a-holic, my work affords me my hobby luxury, but it takes a lot of my time and so, as it is with providers, my time is very valuable. I'm not going to waste her time or mine.  

I will say this about a cell phone, a provider should afford me the same or possibly more respect that she would with a civie date for the time we are together. I always schedule in advance, I have to travel to spend time with a provider. And so, she should have that time set aside, I am conscience of her time and don't overstay so I believe she should refrain from paying attention to her phone during the time we are together. I could understand on a long date if she felt the need to excuse herself to the restroom if she wanted to check her phone, but that shouldn't be an excessive thing either.  

It's all a matter of respect, if I were out on a civie date and she was on her phone all the time, it would be the last time too.

I will say, I haven't had many problems with any of that though, because I choose wisely who I spend time with. I obviously use TER to review ladies, and I take care to research who I travel to go see

I flew a provider in for New years Eve in Vegas a few years ago.  We had spent several enjoyable sessions together so I was expecting the best.  Unfortunately, during dinner she was totally fixated on her Ipad.  We then moved to a nightclub where I had laid out a large amount for reservations.  She didn't have ID and they wouldn't let us in.  I had next hoped to welcome in the New Year out on the strip, but she didn't bring a coat.  Other than that we had a great time.  I fucked her hard as we watched the revelry down on the strip and again the next morning, but I haven't seen her since.

I have a couple of lovers who snore like grizzly bears. As long as they don't mind that I wear earplugs to bed I don't mind sleeping with them.

A few maxims I have learned from experience:

1.  Best bang for the buck is a 1 to 2 hour session.  Overnights and weekends are fun too, in their way, but as far as the sex goes, both parties seem more focused on the event during a limited time engagement.

2.  The more times you see someone, the higher the probability that you will eventually have a bad date.  Call it human nature, the luck of the draw, the lessening of respect in the relationship due to familiarity, whatever.  Your play of "supporting as many single moms as possible" is the safest play.

3.  You never know what someone will do until they do it.  No matter how well you think you know someone, no matter how many times you have seen the person, no matter how many times the person has been trustworthy or reliable, always keep a guarded eye on a) your wallet, and b) your privacy.

And please don't think I am being negative on providers - I think these maxims work both ways, for hobbyists and providers alike.

I've done quite a few 3-4 hrs lunch/dinner dates with new ladies and always had a fun time.  However, I'll only do overnighters or longer with ATFs, since we know each other well and have good chemistry.  

As for the cell phone stress test, I don't want to be bothered with calls or TMs when I'm with a hot lady, so I could care less about checking my phone during dinner.  I also keep keep my phone on vibrate mode, so it won't be a distraction to my date.

Just don't wear anything else.

ere is an idea an ex-coworker gave me.
If someone you are eating with is texting. Send them a text and address it to another person.

I.E. you are eating dinner with John,

Send him a text by "mistake"...

hey Julie,  
all this guy is doing with me is Texting, how rude is that ?

Or you can be blunt and address he direct

Hey John
Are you enjoying your dinner ?

 
Hopefully he will read it and put it away

For me, this has happened 2x. First time I almost called to cancel due to a death in my friends family but went thru w/the date since my friend didnt want me to be sad over this. I didnt have much fun on my date.
  Second time - she left about 5 hours into the date due to her having a violent allergic reaction to the latex condom i used (she didnt tell me she was allergic to it until it was too late) but only took part of the donation due to what happened.
  I do bring my cell phone when i do eat alone but when im w/a lady, I rarely check it at dinner w/her out of respect for her.