Is it a turn-on or a turn-off for your guys to imagine just how many guys a lady in this hobby actually "services" in her career?!? Feedback from my clients is that they "love" it but I wonder if I just attract that kind of client.
Last night I was lying in bed (alone, playing with one of my new toys) and I was thinking about all the guys I'd met and enjoyed in this hobby since 2001 - wow! I started thinking about how I considered myself a low-milage provider by most ladies' standards ie. only about 4 or 5 pages of reviews on TER for example, cuz I tried to see not more than 1 guy a day when "working" - (unless it was a party - hehe - but I won't go there on this thread) 
Since most of my guys never even wrote reviews at all, I decided to double or maybe triple the numbers that I'd seen over the past 5 years. Then I got thinking about the really well-known popular girls who have 25 pages of reviews and I started doubling or tripling their numbers, to make it even, on how many guys saw them without writing reviews, and well...you can do the math. Geez! For me it was a turn-on as I revved up the battery power on my new toy but it made me curious, do most guys like or dislike to think of a woman's prowess out here in hobbyland??
Lee Chase
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I really haven't given the "total" a thought ... however, I always like to think or hope I'm her first for that day .....
when you watch how some ladies just give it a quick wipe with the wash cloth and then there out the door, it makes you wonder .....
Off the subject ....
Once I was getting ready for a little DATY and noticed some rolled up TP still lingering inside ......now I always check first ...open wide and say cheeeeeeese...lol....
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during that short time we are together, she and I are hopefully only thinking about each other. At least the best ladies make you feel that way.
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I'm new to the hobby and planning on a Vegas trip in a few months and have contacted a few providers. It is an interesting question and the thought has crossed my mind but not as much has who I want to see. I'm the type of person that when I get my mind set on seeing a provider I can't settle for someone else. So I guess I'm saying, to me it's more important who I see than how many guy's she's been with. I will admit it is somewhat of a turn on that a provider has seen a lot of guy's, if that's kinda gay to admit than strike that last comment. In fact forget I said that.
I always thought I was the first with every provider...try not to think about the ones before me, too much pressure lol
I always considered myself low volume. Two out of three years in this hobby I had a two hour min. and one appt a day was enough. There were days I did do two because you do try like hell to accomodate everyone BUT good lord it almost killed me! There was no going from one to the other for me. I would've been dead in a month! I needed a nap and a full shower in between!
The only time I changed that rule was while on tour...a normal tour I did two appts a day. I recall a tour with LJ to DC, good lord! I've never done this in my life and boy did I pay for it! Four two hour appts a day with two overnights in between a four day period. Holy shit, it was brutal ~ I was limping through the airport when I was done and was out of commish once back in Vegas for at least a week! NEVER AGAIN, not even for that kind of money!
Once I was done completely with the hobby I attempted to do the count - I hadda stop cause the numbers were too high even for me to deal with! LOL It's amazing when ya sit and do a tally, ya just don't realize it as your doing it.
Well, if there are any providers giving out a prize to their 5000th or 10,000th customer served, I'd rather not win it. Honestly, I never think about it. It would kind of destroy that GFE thing.
Doesn't really turn me on to know a girl has been with a lot of guys. But if she has a lot of reviews, I figure she must be damn good at what she does. I'd be curious to know how the providers feel about guys whove put their peckers in a lot of women
wins the race.. I`ve never been a high volumne kind of girl.. but through out the yrs.. I`ve always believed in QUALITY so there goes the 2-3 hr minimun.. I must be doing something right.. since about 80 percent of my guys come back yr after yr.. thats a nice compliment in itself.. !Plus.. my dates are the more entertaining kind of crazy dates.. LOL>> I really can`t explain them.. But always something freakin funny happens!!.. I`m not the in and out kind of girl.. I want the guy to experience the whole L J.. not just the Provider.. but the real person.. who loves life!!
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and when it is over, I like to think I have a friend to stay in touch with and maybe even see again, if he was satisfied. I have appreciated time with each guy, and like WiggleWoman said, it doesn't seem like that many guys at the time you're doing it. Mathematically speaking though it is pretty much infinite. And luckily some of us thrive on that. Yea but it is good we are all different, GFE PSE whatever, so everyone can get what they want.
Lee Chase
Great response Lee.
The power of the courtesan relationship is all in the moment - for "client" and "provider". When you are both completely there - erotic, humorous, passionate, curious (the whole "LJ" package lol)then there is no counting. It's why no one likes clock watching. It's not that there is no external reality (time constraints, $, stuff to do later today, blah, blah). It's just that we want to drop all that, like the envelope on the table, the clothes on the floor... Eye contact. I contact.
So who's counting?
but I can say that while I'm aware of it, it's not something I think about very much. Since I try to be very selective about who I see, usually I see people who have a considerable number of great reviews, which means A) they're really good at what they do, and B) many people think that. That's the extent of my thinking about it. The majority of people I've seen (and LJ is about the most perfect example of this I've ever experienced, which is why I keep seeing her every chance I get) have made me feel that in the time we have together, I'm the only guy in the world for them, and all their attention is on me, which I've never really experienced in the "real" world.
I think you would drive yourself nuts if you do. All that really matters is if the lady left you with a big smile on your face. Besides, many ladies will say they only book one guy every (take pick) day, week, whatever, as a) a marketing tool, and b) so the rest of the sorority won't think they're a skank (female logic at its finest, bit I digress).
Regarding Kim's (WW) comment below, men and women have different levels of endurance. The ladies from FL who tour the East and Midwest see maybe 30 guys on a 3 day tour. That's a lot of boneage. Som e women are equipped to handle all that pounding and are in great physical shape, endurance wise, others not so lucky.
When I moved back to Jersey in '01 boy was I in for a shock! First of all, a 'regular' in Vegas to me meant I saw them twice a year (I didn't see many locals due to my casino bckgrnd). Back in Jersey I felt like I had 600 boyfriends callin me at least once a week! I had a real hard time with that...and the manner in which they asked you for appts left alot to be desired! I thought I was rough! lol Not to mention all with Italian names that I swore I knew all of them! LOL It was all way too close to home for me. I never even worked in the county I lived in cause it was too close for comfort - hell, every 2 hour appt had an hour ride one way! It was crazy! When I did tour, I couldn't accomodate almost 1/2 of the gents that would contact me. Very frustrating all the way around. You do get very spoiled in this hobby if your successful in Vegas before you go anywhere else. A whole different scene completely!
You probably did-half of them were probably second and third cousins, and wouldn't mind the action!
After all, what's the definition of Italian virgin, right?
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When I was in the service we stoped in Greece , A aircraft carrer , four distroyers and a troop ship full of marines . A place with a long hall with six doors on each side and a line about 50 yards long . The girls , six of them would service a guy then run across the hall to a waiting custemer . In the first room the guy would get his pants back on leave and the next guy would take his place . Since then I don't think about numberes .
If the session is with someone I have no feelings for, it doesn't matter one way or the other. I guess I hope she's seeing lots of guys so she can retire rich soon.
If I begin to have some feelings for a provider, it helps to remember all the guys she is seeing, and I read the reviews (and the more reviews the better) to keep my mind on the reality: there is not a snowball's chance in hell my feelings will be reciprocated.
In neither case, however, is thinking about the numbers a turn on. Mostly it just makes me a little depressed.
I've fallen in love with both Lee Chase and LJ Montana. They are both lovely women in their own special and unique ways. That is one duo I'd love to see someday. Ladies? Could I handle it? Currently not active, but have great memories! I consider both 'lovers' and 'friends'!
