What makes a BBBJ the best blowjob - one that rocks your world?

Curious about technique.....  Do you prefer mouth and hand to be used?  Or mouth only?  Do you want your crown jewels to be stroked, kissed, licked?  Is the art of 'deep throat' an important factor or do you prefer most attention to be paid to the tip?  

And what about the spirit in which it is given?  Do you prefer a blowjob that starts playful and leisurely?  OR a hungry intense sucking?

I know everyone differs - just curious to see what most will say makes a blowjob the best BBBJ ever to them.

Thanks - may you enjoy the fruits of your feedback!!!

is when the lady goes down fast, no tougue, just light big "O" of wet lips around shaft, and then comes back out slowly, again, just lightly with wet lips in an "O" around the shaft, then lingers with a flick of the toungue on the head, then goes back down fast, and repeats that.  Done that way I get off big time quickly.  But if I get a rough job with a lot of toungue and a lot of pressure and sucking, nothing happens.

And yeah, it you want to delay and play around a bit by sucking my balls or playing with them that's fine too  

What you have listed sounds great.  I really like having my cock and balls a kissed and licked.  Having the tounge swirl around the head is awesome.  Getting a prostrate massage while being blown is one of the best experinces I've had.  It can be either on the outside or the inside.  Have the anus stimulted while being blown in any way shape or form is great!!!

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Really wanting to know specifically if stroking the cock with my hand in addition to using my mouth (in various ways - best left to imagination) is what makes a blow job superior.  

OK, since I am using an alias here... I will tell you I tend to use my hand only to stroke the balls and not to stroke the cock.  This seems to be my natural preference unless asked to do otherwise.

Okay so we are all different I prefer the mouth used at the glans and the hand used to supplement that action so in effect I am receiving a hand and blow job at the same time. That makes it really special..

Including a Tantric massage is something I am learning to love (thanks Cindy)

Too strong/hard a mouth tends to make it less enjoyable (for me)
Deep throating is good but not essential.

If you want someone to practice on ..........

MI@M

Ok, so i'll be in vegas again soon.  I really want to help you out, so how about this.  I'll let you perform a variety of techniques and i'll give you lots of feedback as to my responses.  Truly with the intent to help a lady out. (lol)

Well, if you can afford the freight, Kathy Willets is simply spectacular.......awesome no hands, deep wett technique, works to completion, and administers an Asian tongue lashing second to none.

Roxy's oral skills are also outstanding. Some of the reviews indicate CIM, with the result spit out, but I haven't gone there with her during the times I've seen her. MfSD>>>>>

Hey Marco,

I know your wanting to see Ava Devine, she gives an incredible BJ, no hands here baby, She loves it hard and deep, I'm not saying I'm huge, but not that damn small either (my motto measure your worth through girth and she has no problem.

Porn Star Sara Jay, does use her hand a lot, which I don;t usually like to much, but it feels incredible when shes doing it, I don't know what shes doing down there but drives me crazy, she also deep throats pretty darn good also.

I'm going top have to see Kathy someday soon, also Anna Malle, two ladies that a re without a doubt on my must must see list.

B-Pop

An enthusiastic happy attitude will do wonders for me even more then technique. My most memorable experience however was with someone who, I think, could give lots of your friends classes. Im not saying this to be funny and I know providers who really are wonderful at BJs. I remember this girl because she didnt stop for almost 40 minutes despite the fact I came several times. She just kept moving her wet warm wonderful mouth and tongue all over. She used her hands fom time to time but didnt lick my balls or take them in her mouth a lot though I really love that. She just let me know she was going to be through with me when she was ready! and I was along for the ride. I was not expecting anything like this (of course)but I'll alwasys remember her and look forward to seeing her again when I can. I'll be happy to give you more details if you like. Send me a message if you like. By the way as you can probably tell I think your question was wonderful and admire your attitude very much! Thank you Sweetie!

One of the memorable BJ I got from a provider was when she took my cock all the way, then induced her gag-reflexes and basically massaged my cock with the back of her throat.  I pretty much start to lose it there .  The cool thing is during foreplay, she took my finger and did the same thing to give me a preview.  Other than that, getting the tip licked is great.

Another memorable BJ was from a PSE.  Alot of saliva (I was drenched)

Thanks, aim2please. And thanks guys for your input.
If I'm in doubt, I will usually ask what they like the most.
Because what one gent absolutely loves, another may feel
is just ho-hum. The direct aproach works for me quite well.
You can't go wrong with on the spot instructions from him.
There are times when afterwords, he tells me "I really like it better this way" and I say "great, why didn't you say so?" I love it when a man tells me what he wants. Basically, men like the same things. But there are so many variations, techniques, and personal preferences that it is just a matter of communicating what you want.

Maybe some guys prefer a specific BJ and they want it that way every time.  I like all kinds and it really depends on the day, my mood, etc...
So the best head is when you're in tune with what is pleasing to me (listening, watching my reactions, etc). It is easier to comment on what not to do:
Don't squeeze my balls too hard or flick them too hard. Don't end with a HJ. Don't get carried away with your teeth. Don't be inflexible - be willing to alter what you're doing. Don't be too distant - seem like you're actually enjoying it or at the very least Want to be there!

a porn star ( : Yes, our wish lists are long indeed LOL MfSD>>>>

and politically correct, not to mention I'm particular fond of eating out, I direct your attention to this link.

Ladies, please feel free to cumment!

Pretty good article .
But bottom line , each women can be different ( yes sorry guys we women are so complicated )  and like it in different ways .

Best is to ask and communicate with each other . Pay attention to her respond and don't think it is going to happen in a minute . If you don't have patients ..........don't go there !!!

And you don't always HAVE to ejaculate ( cum )  to enjoy ........but maybe only those who experienced Tantra can understand that.

My thoughts , xoxo CindySpice

I understand!!!!

Because you have been spiced !

Can't wait for the 6th spicing!!! Only 8 days away!!!