I am interested in both gentlemen's and ladies thoughts here.

On my last trip to Vegas I took the plunge and had a 6 hour session with a relatively well known and reviewed lady here.  We e-mailed several times back and forth and had hopes for the best.  Turned out to be the worst session of my life and made me gun shy the rest of the trip to call anyone.  This wasn't just a chemistry thing.  I won't mention who or what she did, but it was far from expected.  I should have just cut and run, but couldn't bring myself to ask her to leave.  Luckily a local legend made me smile before I left.  If you are reading, thanks.

I am heading out that way soon and am considering dipping my toe again.  I only get to play sporadically and don't have a huge following of ladies I know.  Would you book 6 plus or even an overnight with someone you never met or only met once.  If something horrible happened, how did you handle it.  Would love to go out to a bar, strip club, swing club, something without worrying about the clock.  Even that morning wake up would be something without having to meet in the lobby at 6am.

Would appreciate your thoughts, experiences, and advice.

I am a tad careful about new girls due to my natural skeptic & untrusting personality where solid proof is the only way to convince me. Who the hell knows if the girl even looks like her photos or not? Who knows if she's got the GFE we're looking for? What if she's a psychopath acting all weird on me the whole time? What if she's a lot fatter than I expected?  

Not to be mean to girls who became over hill and chubby but we're the ones paying good money. Sometimes it's a days wage or more for those making median income. Heck I've gotten out of shape too and even though I was a popular guy back in college, I don't plaster my facebook profile with 20 year old photos like how some of these providers do. Everyone has their time and work becomes more important than working out all day, and that's a fact of life sometimes. But again, we're the clients seeking out the providers and we're the ones blowing several hundred per hour.  

This is how I approached it. If I fly in the hot girl to my town, she's most likely going to require a minimum amount of time... at least couple thousand. Well since I'm in her side of town, at least that minimum is gone. If the girl turns out to be hot or even if she's not DDG but I still find her very attractive, I have often seen her again for much longer times either by extending the session or seeing her as soon as we have free time. If a trusted friend with a similar taste as me gloats about the girl, then I'd book 2 hours simply cuz I trust the backchannel info I got from that friend whose reputation for honest feedback has been proven to me. If the girl has very high reviews that are not from newbie reviewers but instead from more than several trusted people I am familiar with, then I'd likely book 2 or 3 even though I have not met her before.  

I dislike overnights cuz I don't like having a stranger sleep next to me, but I have in the past extended our time to an overnight or 24 hours or 48 hours with certain girls I click well with. Chemistry plays a big role, obviously despite being client/provider relationship. Sometimes you will run into a girl whom you just want to spend more time with so be prepared to be surprised when a really gorgeous girl shows up.

Oh, don't forget to take the cash out of your ATM or bank before they close cuz there are daily withdrawal limits. It sucks when you really want to see a girl but can't draw cash from the ATM due to the daily withdrawal limit. It happened to me and it really sucks bawlsssss. rofl

There's no such thing as a dead solid lock. As your experience proves my point.  

I would use the money you were going to use for the extended date and try to book shorter visits with a couple of ladies you are intrested in seeing.   I'm like you once you have a bad experience you get gun shy.   don't let one bad experience stop you from trying again.  I regular with one lady in town and it's so much fun but it took time for our  chemistry to build.  once you feel some chemistry with who ever it is then I'd do the longer visit knowing you will have a nice time with them.   for me research and reach out to fellow hobbyist and you will find what you are looking for.   good luck and have fun!

Hello,  
How is your day. I am very sorry you had a negative time last time. I am happy that you are willing to give us ladies another shot. I have reviews and gentlemen like yourself always seem surprised I am the way i sound and people say. It makes me sad when others don't live up to there reputation makes the rest of us look bad and scares away the nice ones. I would love a chance to show you we are not all bad and can be very much worth our wile. Even if you go with another, I hope you have a better experience when you come back threw Vegas.

This site is to help other hobbyist, from having the same bad experiences on a date.  

So post a honest review of the lady, to help the rest of your fellow hobbyist out.

I remember another hobbyist had the same issue not to long ago and never posted a review either.  Why?

It's like letting someone rob you and then acting like it never happen.

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I was scheduled for the overnight our very first time meeting and we had a great time.  He pre - booked, so to ensure I was available and not to cause undue rush.  I always feel more excited that way. Don't get me wrong, same day sessions are okay too. Something about him expecting to meet me turns me on.  So, moving forward onto our date.  We had decided to goto dinner the days before and as we were waiting for our table,  we sat at the bar while I had a drink.  He began to share with me about how he was formerly a chef. It turns out that my mom was  a Baker and great in the kitchen and I can sit and watch Food channel all day. So, as you can see, we had things in common to talk about. By the time we were done with dinner we went upstairs and it was getting late. Played around a little and we fell asleep.  

The next morning, refreshed with a little bit of play be called to me with a very serious look on his face.  He says "you know.  After I gave you your envelope before dinner last night, if I didn't like you, I was just going to ask you to leave. I had planned that if i didn't like you,  you could take the envelope and leave. Well, you know how that turned out. " I was pleased that I made a new friend and he was comfortable with me.  That's very important to me.  He offered to drive me home and we stopped at a pub near my house and we ate breakfast together.  

When dropped he off and I was gathering my bags I noticed my scarf was not there and I told him I must have forgot it in the room. He said here are the room keys and my business card just tell them you are my wife.  I arrived at the hotel and the maid was cleaning and scarf was not in the room.  

We are still friends and we meet when he can. He wanted to take me to Paris but I met him in New York instead. Scheduling conflict. Takes me out to nice restaurants and shopping.  He is very nice to me.  But it's not just about me.  It's about us.  

You can have a great and exciting time on a Blind first date so to speak. Chemistry and the ability to respect others boundaries are important.  

Thank you for allowing me to share my experience.  

Lorelei Jesse

I reserve overnighters or dates longer than 4 hrs. for providers who I've seen before and I'm confident that we both have good chemistry.  It's too costly and can also put both parties in awkward situations if you don't "click" during the down times.  Good chemistry is even more important when you're doing overnighters or longer.

Personally, I often do 2 hrs. or a 3-4 hrs. lunch or dinner dates when I'm seeing a new provider.  Even for as long as 4 hrs., I never experienced any negatives ...perhaps I've been lucky, so far.  LOL

Hope you all dont mind me sharing. I have gotten burned trying to book extended  dates in advance twice.  Once after booking u just knew she wasnt my type so i bailed.   The other one just happened. I had booked a show/hotel package at the Trop for Mamma Mia but unfortunately mamma mia is being cancelled  as of this weekend.  Threw me for a loop but thankfully  Trop gave me a full refund.  So i rebooked at the Cosmo instead.  The provider i want out her she wasnt helpful instead was snappy anfd told to quit wasting her time.  Apparently  the first one i mentioned  bad mouthed me somewhere maybe here i dont know and dont care.  It is my money and my life no apologies.  

So after the cancellation i really didntknow what to do.  So many choices yes it is hard to make a decision!!!!  Anyway i am still going have a good time and providers i have seen know what i am like that is all that matters.  Sorry for hijacking your thread to vent but yeah use caution going for the hail mary extended outungs!

Start with a 4 hour session with the understanding if you click that you can extend to a possible 6 hour or even an overnight session. That way if there isnt any chemistry you are under no obligation to have her stay overnight and ruin your experience. Hope that helps!

Holly!

I have had situations of booking for 1hr or 2 and being asked to extend the meeting.
Also having a dinner and asked for overnight. The chemistry was good and I like to go with a flow and being spontaneous. I am very intuitive and I know I can trust.

I hear ya good advice start with a single and stretch ti a triple if things click.....cant help the analogy i am a baseball  nut lol!

I think it makes sense. You can either let them know in advance or see if they are willing once you are together and are feeling it. I have had that happen where they ask to extend after the date has started. It  is not problem to extend escpecially when I am enjoying myself.  It made me feel great that he was enjoying himself so much he wanted to spend more time with me. That is when you know its a great date and isn't that what were all looking for??

Although I have never attended one...

maybe you should try and schedule your next trip to co-inside with a Vegas Meet and Greet.

Then you can chat with the ladies and plan on the extended date for the following night. Or later the same night.