Is it rude or inappropriate to ask for a short meeting for free before booking an appointment?  I'm not talking about any services, etc.  Just a quick drink to make an introduction. My thought is this - I'm a local that would like to book longer appointments but want to make sure there is some chemistry there first. I'm sure someone is going to say just book a short appointment first then do another for a longer period or extend, etc.  I'm not truly not trying to be cheap. Its just trying to save time as sometimes that's more valuable than money. To continue my thought, I'm thinking to meet someone at a casino before or after an existing appointment to just have a quick conversation. I don't want anyone to go out of their way. Make sense?  Or am I just being an ass?

Feel free to PM me if that's preferred.

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ask for "free" time.  You have to remember that a provider needs to block out time for you and allow for travel time.   Even if she lives very close to the strip, it is still at least 1/2 round trip drive time to meet with you.  Add 1 hour for you "chat" and she loses almost 20%  of a typical work day.  There are some providers that offer "public" time versus "private" time rates , but that is the lady's discretion.  

I have asked providers for "lunch" time to see if they would be compatible for a longer (think weekend) date, but not for free.

If you want to see if you are compatible with a particular provider, I suggest a shorter 1 hour date to see how it goes.

Best of luck to you

Appreciate your response but not sure you read my complete post. However the lack of response probably confirms your thoughts.

...even tho you still intend to go through with your scheduled appointment, you're still asking for a 90 minute appointment for the price of 60 or basically an extra 1/2 hour tacked on to your appointment at no charge. It doesn't hurt to ask. Let us know if your inbox gets flooded with PMs from ladies who have no issue with this. It's a pretty competitive market so it might work.
Personally, I feel that those who feel it's important to establish chemistry first before engaging in a session are overthinking things a bit....

 
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There are ladies who have social only dates for a much lower rate than their regular donation that includes private time.Why not try that option?
Because as others have said at the end of the day you are still asking for free time to "see"if you have chemistry.So if you feel there is no chemistry a lady has just wasted her time with verifying you and meeting in public first for free.
Most gents who are concerned with chemistry or getting to know one another have no issue with booking a longer date and compensating the provider for the whole time she is there.

I stopped worrying about notches on my belt long ago. These days, I seek something more substantial in my encounters. and as such, if it is a young lady I have not already met at a meet n greet or other social interaction, I pretty much insist on a brief meet n greet before I am willing to commit to a session. If she declines, respect the boundaries, and move on. If she accepts, that's a point in her favor AFAIAC.  

Ladies who offer superlative services and expect to see upwards of $600 per hour should be willing to spend a few minutes to reassure the occasional new client who wants chemistry as much as he wants to fuck pussy.  

Many ladies do include a social time only aspect to their menu, and its usually a very reasonable balance. Pool dates, social or dinner only encounters, they are out there.  

It's a two way street. Some ladies don't really give a shit one way or the other, and go through the motions whether they are $300 or $600 an hour. To them, the guy is just a job, just another stop on the way to the Bank. Others seek to establish a rapport, and develop regular clientele, maybe even a benefactor or two.Those are the ladies who are willing to spend a few minutes of casual time off the clock in order to reinforce the potential of a long term relationship. It's a business model that does work. Just ask Angel Girl, my ATF of ten years.  

No tj_tj, I do not think it is rude or inappropriate, nor do I think you make an ass of yourself by asking.
But don't expect too many positive responses, more than likely you will receive a few rude ones. Don't be dissuaded though. There are real gems out there ready eager willing and waiting to make you a happy camper. I am not VIP at present or I'd send a few recommendations your way. Good Luck.

"Because as others have said at the end of the day you are still asking for free time to "see"if you have chemistry.So if you feel there is no chemistry a lady has just wasted her time with verifying you and meeting in public first for free."

All due respect jaydalee, but the other side is this: If there's no chemistry and at the end of the session the guy is dissatisfied, what recourse does he have? Do you offer a money back guarantee? No, you will expect the robust envelope whether you nut him twice and make him squeal, or fail to get him hard because he was allergic to your perfume. Two way street here.

"Most gents who are concerned with chemistry or getting to know one another have no issue with booking a longer date and compensating the provider for the whole time she is there."

I disagree completely. As one who seeks a specific type of chemistry and mindset in his companions, I'll be damned if I will commit to spending one cent before I have an idea of how well we will get along. I have been and continue to be inclined to book lengthy sessions that include on and off the clock time with those ladies who are able to hang with me. I'm not just another cock with a wallet, and the ladies who know me, know that to be true. But this isn't about me. I merely use myself as an example of why I disagree with your statement.

As hobbyists in good standing, we should always respect the providers boundaries. As the lady says, their time is valuable to them. And MY time and money are just as valuable to me. the respect has to go both ways. Otherwise, we're nothing but addict hookers and johns looking for a fix.

Cheers!

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Yields positive results.  

There's a few ways you could tackle this aside from the listed above.
Wait and go to a meet and greet when most of the ladies will be in attendance. We have smaller ones  
Throughout the year but the best is the avn meet and greet in January.  

Meet a lady for lunch and offer her compensation for that to see if you are compatible .
Never assume that someone won't take you up on your offer. Pick a few ladies and send them a lunch or dinner offer.  
She will then set the rules.  

No drama will be there if you explain yourself in the email.  

Then last I would just dive in , exchange a few emails set a date and have drinks first break the ice and have fun , this  
Is such a awesome hobby , there are so many wonderful ladies that you would have lots in common with.  
Most of us list out hobbies and likes on our website.  

Now it's time for you to start researching.  

If you say it's going to be amazing , it will be!  

April

There is so many different ways to handle this depending on the two people.
I respect your response and while we have different opinions we both agree everyone's time is valuable and how one chooses to spend it is their choice.If that works for you awesome.

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I agree with some of the above statements.  The younger providers in higher demand truly look at it as there hourly rate whether behind closed doors or walking the strip.  If they truly only knew they would make more for doing less and being more open to social time and bedroom time and accepting a little less when going out having fun and having some indoor fun too.  It is hard to want to do a 6 or 7 hour appt. if the clock is ticking at 500 or 600 an hour. It forces us to decide to  skip  the social time and just pay them for time indoors and they make 1000 for 2 hours. When could have made something reasonable like 2000 - 2500 for same time indoors and treated like a queen out on the town having some fun!! I also noticed they don't really treat regulars any different and when rates increase it gets passed on to everyone . Some even post it in there adds no exceptions.  But the flipside is  they are young and hot and in demand and they can get away with it here in vegas.

Time can be more valuable than money..
So are you overvaluing your time and undervaluing ours?

I like strong connections and book longer appointments as the routine, so I'm very interested in making sure that I'm not wasting that kind if money.  I don't do what you asked, but I also don't see anything wrong with it.  Don't be surprised if asking is the last communication between you and the woman though.  Here's what I DO do though:

1) if you have someone you see that you trust to give honest opinions you can ask them for recommendations.  Many women do doubles and may be familiar with other women you might find fun.  Care in who and how you ask is important, there are a few horror stories out there

2) I have purchased membership here, one of the reasons I did so was so when I've found a few women I like I look at who has also reviewed those same women in a positive light.  I then go and see who else they have reviewed.  If 4 or 5 guys that all like the women I like have seen a second woman in common and reviewed her well that ups the odds if me liking her as well.  Sometimes the converse is also true, if they all thumb down the same girl I avoid her.

my social rate is much lower then my normal rate and is for meeting in public only for drinks or dinner.

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