Not to say that it is, but maybe it is your preference and I mean this is the most respectable way and I'm sure my colleagues that are in the same business will concur that you get what you pay for.  

If you want leisure unlimited time with a lady who is interested in the same then you may want to find a dating site.  

I've yet to see a provider who wouldn't view your proposal as a business related proposition because when you sign up for a website like so, that's just what it is.. business for pleasure or vice versa. Many of us ladies do not have leisure time to hang out for free. We are providers in and out of the industry in many ways. Some having other professions that desire that undivided attention and time. Some being mother's that committ fully to being companions so any other time is for family and friends, love. That's it.  

I'm sure if you were a service provider there would be a time or another that you would not want to risk doing a service for free because you just don't have the time to and it's not in your budget.

You can't police our wallet. Just as you have life challenges, setbacks, and health conditions so do a lot of providers and their families which goes back into me saying some of us don't have the leisure time to spend unnecessarily accommodating.  

 
The attitude as well plays a part now too going further for appointments if you ever. I wish you the best.