One explosive with stars and numbness for me

Since orgasms and ejaculation are different

Lately I have been enjoying "riding" multiple orgasms that fluctuate between a level 5 and 8/9, instead of just racing to the 10 and completing with ejaculation. After 3/4/5 of the "lower level" orgasms, I find I get a longer dose of the "feel good hormones", especually if no ejaculation occurs. An added bonus is I can last longer and do my part in assisting my Lover to reach her own orgasmic goals.  

If my Lover is happy, I'm happy. :-

The others are just maintenance oil changes.

So I much prefer that "one explosive, seeing stars, no feeling in your legs kind of orgasm".  That goes for the lady I'm with.  When we are done, it is my hope that she is left in that state of 'Wow, wasn't expecting that".