no you make a lot of scene.  I also seek the provides who enjoy kissing passionately.   you research and overall it seems like all providers are ymmv with kissing.   it could be attraction,  personal reasons who really knows.   kissing is something I seek because I don't get it in my personal life.   so when I read a review of a lady just because it says she kissed someone doesn't mean that will be the case with me.   at first I took it personal but then I started to think it's not personal everyone has different connections with each other.   at the end of the day it's a business friendship and they have every right to do what they want and with whom they decide to do the kissing with.   hopefully one day I'll find a lady who I connect with in that way.  I guess you can't fake  passion and I wouldn't want someone to do that anyway.