on another Thread Kelly asked do you remember the first time you hobbied .....  well i remember my first time ...  well first time i transitioned .    for several years a long time ago in a galaxy far far away ,  i only went to FBSM girls.    nice massage, with a nice happy ending.      

one time the girl is doing the HJ and stops and said .. how about we go into the bedroom and have sex ..  i go .. ok ...    so we get on the bed she covers me and missionary ..    well i am sweating like a pig  LOL .. she was very sweet and actually very hot but took me forever to pop i was so nervous.     she never asked or even implied additional donation.   i think she just wanted it too.        

that broke the stigma for me in terms of $ for sex , before that i never considered it and thought it was a bad line to cross.    wish i didnt do that, would have saved me six figures  $$ in the years to come !  LOL