But I feel your frustration when you find a beautiful lady and she only gives a cbj.
Not much you can do other than move on and find someone who does do what you want/need.
No point beating yourself up about it.
So I have been a member here for years but have only posted one review for various reasons. I have met many great ladies in this town but now that I am getting up there in age, I find myself looking at the young ones. The problem is that every knockout that gets me worked up does not offer BBBJ. Now I know they have their reasons and I really respect their right to choose, but I just can't do it. You see these absolute young darlings that I would crawl over broken glass to meet but their profile reads "covered bj." (You know who you are)
So many will say, there are hundreds that do what you are looking for, but I want one of them damn it!!
Wa-Wa
But I feel your frustration when you find a beautiful lady and she only gives a cbj.
Not much you can do other than move on and find someone who does do what you want/need.
No point beating yourself up about it.
Just using your requirements mentioned. I found 4 pages of reviews (60 different providers) within the last 3 weeks.
Seriously, I know how to search and if you really read my post you would understand that it's the ones I want that don't make it available. I know their are hundreds that do but they don't really catch my fancy. Thanks for trying to help
follow rules when it comes to bbbj. Basically they are a health risk for other things besides STDs. There are a variety of throat ailments that can be attributed to oral. So try not to hold it against the ladies trying to stay healthy. That being said there are plenty of very attractive ladies that do bbbj. As stated by others here, all you gotta do is look.
Like I said in my original post I appreciate their right to choose. A man can dream and when I see these amazing ladies I can only wish.
A few years ago it seemed like there were way more that only offered CBJ. Many of those now offer BBBJ. There are valid reasons for cbj only. Gonorrhea is very difficult to treat in the throat.
For me, it makes no real difference since I can’t cum that way. I made the mistake of telling a provider that two providers ago and she took it as a challenge. She tried like a true champion, but eventually she realized that vaginal sex was the route to getting me on my way.
you cant teach a young dog old tricks..
I have the unique opportunity to view both sides of this case, both from knowing the risks from a medical standpoint and yet still electing to offer BBBJ as part of my personal menu because I am super stringent about my own personal STD testing regime.
In terms of HIV, oral sex both ways is very safe. The University of California San Francisco just completed a study of men in San Francisco who have only had oral sex and found zero new HIV infections. A very recent study from Spain confirmed earlier studies that oral sex is safe sex in terms of HIV. However, there are case reports and individual experiences that support that HIV can be transmitted through oral sex, although VERY rarely. As far as whether oral sex is riskier if you swallow, truthfully no one really knows so perhaps that is why others who do elect to only offer BBBJ don't swallow.
Unprotected oral sex, however, can expose you to other STDs. Gonorrhea and chlamydia infections in a partner’s throat, for example, could transmit that infection to your penis. Similarly, a partner with a syphilis lesion in her mouth could pass that infection to your penis through oral sex. Gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis infections of the penis can be passed to a partner’s mouth or throat.
For many people, (I would say including most providers and hobbyists) unprotected oral sex is considered an acceptable level of risk since the potentially transmitted infections are curable. You'll have to decide what is acceptable for you.
In the end my advice is: Enjoy oral sex and get regular check-ups. Intelligent providers (myself included) and hobbyists should get regular STD checkups every three months. A good check-up includes throat testing for gonorrhea, genital/rectal testing for gonorrhea and chlamydia, urine testing for gonorrhea and chlamydia and blood tests for herpes, syphilis and HIV. Hopefully these girls can realize you can stay clean and healthy while enjoying your uncovered oral play.
Carly
I recently had a gal essentially make the same statement while she was enthusiastically giving me head! But I understand it's a comfort level. While I'm an admitted registered proponent of BBBJ, I've also evolved somewhat and won't deny myself the opportunity to be with an otherwise desirable companion. After all, as the aforementioned gal stated, it's the companion that has to deal with the taste of latex! ![]()
Oh, and I've previously posted the significant medicinal benefits of swallowing!!!!
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In support of you contentions there is a book written by the former head of the CDC (center for disease control in Atlanta, Ga) in the AIDS division. The title is "The Myth of Heterosexual Aids". In addition to citing the real incidence of AIDS for various sexual activities, he also points out that in the U.S. there has never been a reported case of AIDS from oral sex alone.
I am mature but love what I can do..I will post as the time gets closer. Kalina
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