..I feel uniquely qualified to field this one.

There's almost no topic that's off limits in conversation.  If the provider is uncomfortable with the topic being discussed, she'll either make up an answer, or change the topic.

Of course, seeing as how I'm the Great American Mangina, I always end up knowing EVERYTHING about my regular friends--their situations with their real-life boyfriends/husbands, real names, how they got into the biz, etc; and I know it's all true, since when one of these gals brings a friend along to one of our dates, all the same info gets thrown around.

Stuff like this should be the least of your concerns.  Just make sure that you've picked a provider who is really into overnight and longer engagements.

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I think there is no limits to what you should say to each other,  but imo if you are both comfortable with each other natural conversion just happens.  I think if you are meeting the person for the first time she might be more hesitant to talk to you about her personal life so you might talk more about the hobby.   really with my experiences if you are a social person and she is too then I think you will find out a little about each other on a personl level naturally.    I've gone on a social date with my regular girl in Vegas and it was really an enjoyable time exactly with I thought it would be like.   it was like being with your girlfriend or spouce.   there was never an awkward time when neither one of us had nothing to say.  honestly we both had such a great time the neither one of us wanted to leave!   I hope you have fun when you are in town and good luck with your search!

that you can ask most providers anything you wish, as long as you respect their right not to answer.

I know the identities of several providers I have seen over the years, but only after several years of sessions and only after I have shared some of my more personal information.  i.e. It was not just her sharing personal information, it was a mutual exchange.

You have to debate the wisdom of that on a case by case basis.  

Most providers I have met with are willing and even interested in sharing details regarding family and their personal relationships as long as you don't go into details such as names and locations.

We will change the subject.

So, when we reply with.. "Hmm.. So.. What's your favorite beach that you have ever been to?" Don't think we are ditsy. We know why we asked that and now so do you.  

Also, if we ask you something and you get quiet, it's part of our job to strike up a different conversation.

Being able to do this is part of what helps qualify a provider to be a good multi hour provider.

Have fun!!!

..as adults, if a topic comes up that makes either of us uncomfortable, there's nothing wrong with simply saying, "That's something I'd rather not talk about."  Fair enough.

I've gone on weekend or longer engagements without previously meeting a client and conversation and getting to know one another genuinely--while maintaining boundaries--has never been an issue.  I always meet people with an open heart and a light attitude, which goes a long way!

I'm sure you'll have a lovely time!

A lot depends on you and the provider. While LV is a great place for ladies they are a lot like us, myriad of personalities, looks, ages, and preferences. Most great ones are far more skilled in we are at showing you a good time. I would submit your personality and theirs make the day for extended dates. Not all highly rated providers are great extended dates and vice versa. Spend some time to get the know them if possible and if a red flag comes up go to the next lady.

Hey bud, I have been on these dates before, one in Vegas actually, and they are a great time! My personal advice is avoid getting too personal if you can help it, try to discuss common interests. My personal recommendation, not trying to offend any other ladies is Heather of Vegas. She is truly an educated woman who can discuss anything and is truly sexy and fun. Take it for what it's worth. Have fun!!!!