In Sep 2015, I posted a message seeking tantra massage. I received a few PMs. One of these was from lady who stated she was the best in providing tantra. When I looked up her details, I found that she is a heavy-set lady in her mid-forties, and specialized in bondage and sadomasochistic service. She did not interest because I was looking for a younger provider and a more sensual and gentle massage.  

Out of respect yes, just say thank  but you found something else. No one should take offense to that or even the non answering of the PM. I  

I reply to all PMs with respect and politeness. In this case, I missed sending reply. She keeps sending messages to other providers saying I wasted her time and I would waste their time too. How much time is spent is wasted by sending a PM, but not hearing back?

Some guys don't bother to politely release a gal from her business offer. Some men are pricks. Though they may not all be in the same group, there tends to be a subset in there someplace.  

While I don't know many of the ladies on TER personally, I can say that the ones I do know would not spend their time essentially cyber stalking an uninterested gentleman. To answer your question regarding PMs, if I reply to an ISO post I do not expect a reply back, nor do I get offended if I do not get one. I simply assume, for whatever reason, that person is not interested and I do not take it personally. I doubt a provider who would respond in that manner would have many (or any) positive reviews if that was how she decided to do business. I hate to feed your unsettled feelings, but is it possible it's someone else who is sending out those emails? Good luck and happy holidays:

When I send a post message, I include my website. You asked for Tantra. Even though I offer Tantra, I understand that there are many variables that could be a deal breaker including how much you like what I have written about myself and my services as well as how appealing you find my look. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'm not movie star gorgeous, no silicone implants or acrylic nails, no tattoos and I don't offer Greek.  I'm tall, blonde and pretty. I get it that my audience is a very thin slice of the pie. If I don't hear from you, I assume that one of those factors was a deciding factor. No offense taken. Here in Vegas, we have a very big box of chocolates. You get to pick the kind you like the very best. Still, consider you taking a bite of of each

I never mentioned name of the provider in my original post or in my reply to a comment.

ourtesy to reply back to those that replied to you.  

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I try to reply to messages, but miss doing so now and then.

As I said, I reply to most PMs received in response to an ISO. Once in a while, I might miss doing so for lack of access to the site or another reason.

No disagreement from me. Indeed, I send courteous replies to almost all who send me PMs in response to ISO. I might miss sending a reply now and then, for reasons like lack of site access at that time.

I see what the woman is doing.

Is spot on.

I am not sure if you know how the real world works..

Actually what the old broad is doing is ruining business of other women.

I always send courteous replies. I received 16 PMs in response to my most recent ISO. I picked two and sent polite responses to the rest that because this is a short weekend visit, I could only see two and hope to meet them on future visits to Vegas. I thanked all who sent PMs.

Acting like a 5 year old.

Fact is, despite this grumpy old woman's campaign, 16 women sent PMs in response to my ISO. Many said, "sorry this happened to you, I am available to kiss and make you feel better." This shows how much weight (that too) this woman's carry among her other ladies in the community and they see her game of ruining their business.

Principle or principal?

To be as insulting and ridiculous as you're being and carrying on the way you are,  it is not helping at all. And if that many other women responded wtf are u complaining about?  Grow up and move on. Let it go buddy....because the production you are putting on is doing the exact opposite of what you want. It is turning providers off and making us all not want anything to do with you. There are far more intelligent and effective ways to go about this, ur making an sad of yourself and proving her right.

if you have 16 messages from providers desperate enough to see you after all of your countless rude posts.
Why are you still posting?Shouldn't you be getting laid right now

and don't resound for 6 months

May take a "while" to respond to. I "recently" replied to all of mine after I submitted a new review. The PM's I replied to had been waiting for about 5 years.  
I could write more reviews for 15 more days of VIP, but I am choosing not to, so for now the PM's in my inbox will have to wait a bit longer.  
I HAVE paid for VIP access in the past but choose to discontinue it for personal reasons not relevant to here.