...it seems to be pretty pointless to make a public complaint about a provider and let her stay safely hidden behind the veil of her computer screen.
Well, maybe she is playing games with you. Or maybe there is something in your profile that concerns her. If that is the case, she should be up front and let you know, not drag you along on a string.
I can understand saying it's pointless but I'm not a mean or vindictive person by nature. I've tried to be as understanding as I can and I don't think of the ladies I meet as just a body to have my pleasure with. I've met some very warm and fun ladies and have had a great time. So I don't want to say her name and start a food fight over what could be a concern on her part that I gave her the wrong vibe or something. I would just like a responce. so if this continues I think I will lodge a complaint with P411. They told me that it was their policy if a provider didn't respond to a request they could cancel her membership.
You don't want to post her name because you think that's vindictive but you're willing to get her bounced from P411, which will definitely hurt her income. That sounds pretty crappy to me. We can't tie you down and torture you for the name but let's just suppose that she's figured out that you have a passive/aggressive side and has opted to blow you off. Naming her puts the burden on her to defend herself. That's not such a bad thing. Otherwise, you can go on wondering why she wronged you and lash out at her by costing her cash.
It's no wonder that providers burn out so quickly.
My thoughts are either name her or don't post at all. In my view what you did is worthless and is just you complaining that a lady does not respond to you. Move on and find a lady who will respond.
Going after her P411 account just move on.Sit back take a breather and find another lady.Then again we only know your side of the story.We have no idea what was said in your email or p411 request.Something you said or in your profile could have made her uncomfortable.
There are wayyyyy to many fish in the sea dont worry about just one. Start worrying if NO ONE will answer you back
Best Wishes
Krystal Love of Las Vegas
Posted By: SDSU1983
I can understand saying it's pointless but I'm not a mean or vindictive person by nature. I've tried to be as understanding as I can and I don't think of the ladies I meet as just a body to have my pleasure with. I've met some very warm and fun ladies and have had a great time. So I don't want to say her name and start a food fight over what could be a concern on her part that I gave her the wrong vibe or something. I would just like a responce. so if this continues I think I will lodge a complaint with P411. They told me that it was their policy if a provider didn't respond to a request they could cancel her membership.
You are right in that it does seem unprofessional based on what you have said.
I probably would have given up or, if she has a phone number, given her a call at some point. If you can only reach her via email or a form on her website, then I guess you've done what you can do.
I understand wanting to see someone that gets your blood pumping but given the cornucopia of women available here in town, I would probably just move on and put this provider on the do not contact list.
But that's just my $.27. (adjusted for inflation)
Just move on. Find someone who is going to be straight forward with you.
Plenty of beautiful providers in Vegas to choose from.
there's really "no harm, no foul" here. I think as a general community we need to be less trigger-happy about "turning folks in" for these slight infractions. The providers' equivalent to this is a "time-waster", and I don't see the need to list guys for this.
Just don't play games, in any way, and move on.
I didn't name her becuase why start a pissing contest. She did sign up to a service that suppose to screen potential clients. if she ignors the requests then the it serves no purpose. so as the people that run P411 I would think it would drive future clients away if they get ignored by the providers they list. It defeats the purpose of a screening service for me. I want the ladies to know I'm reliable, clean and safe. Still I will listen to the advice and move on. I did a search and found another lady I want to meet that is in the same league
Well, she is paying to advertise on P411 so I would assume that they would not boot out a paying customer on the word of a disgruntled john.
Providers don't pay to be on 411. (They can pay for special updated ads or animated ads etc. but not for a regular profile), and P411 will suspend their account for not replying to a client or p411 admin request.
They might send a note to make sure the girl is still online but suspend her account -NO. If a provider truly mistreats a client - that's a different story. But not replying to his request isn't slighting the customer or the site. It means she doesn't want or won't deal with him for whatever reasons.
FYI: We have to sign into P411 every 60 days to make sure we're still alive and kicking and though we don't pay for the home market profile, WE DO PAY for every visiting ad posted (last month 6 ads for me) and extras. So some of us pay them quite regularly.
Well maybe I overstated the part about getting suspended for not replying to a client request, but if you dn't repond to P411 request you will get suspended.
I happen to know a provider whose account got suspended because she did not reply to email requests from P411 for a provider okay. So yes it happens. Providers get suspended from p411. She was eventually reinstated. I assume you get suspended if you don't do the 60 day checkin too. I don't pretend to know all their rules so maybe if you ignore a client or two you won't get suspended. But I bet if it is a pattern, or if the neglected client(s) contact p411 and tell them they are not getting replies, P411 will contact the girl and ask why. If she doesn't reply to them, (P411) then she will be suspended. As for payments, you are saying pretty much what I said. You pay for ads but not for the profile, so while some of you may pay quite regularly, the vast majority are on there free, (currently 8600 listed providers and 1400 ads) and I was replying to the post above that claimed P411 wold not suspend an account because the providers are paying customers. I was merely pointing out that they are not "generally" paying customers as you do not pay to use their basic service.
Thanks
"They might send a note to make sure the girl is still online but suspend her account -NO. If a provider truly mistreats a client - that's a different story. But not replying to his request isn't slighting the customer or the site. It means she doesn't want or won't deal with him for whatever reasons.
FYI: We have to sign into P411 every 60 days to make sure we're still alive and kicking and though we don't pay for the home market profile, WE DO PAY for every visiting ad posted (last month 6 ads for me) and extras. So some of us pay them quite regularly. "
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P411 is a screening service but we don't work for them. Nor do we guarantee that we will return every request made through their site. The fact that SHE ignores your request does NOT negate the purpose of the service. It simply means she's not replying for whatever reason. I am pretty sure they would laugh there ass off at your if you complain to them. I can see them nodding their heads at 411 - "doo doo head! no wonder she isn't getting back to this guy!"
Posted By: SDSU1983
I didn't name her becuase why start a pissing contest. She did sign up to a service that suppose to screen potential clients. if she ignors the requests then the it serves no purpose. so as the people that run P411 I would think it would drive future clients away if they get ignored by the providers they list. It defeats the purpose of a screening service for me. I want the ladies to know I'm reliable, clean and safe. Still I will listen to the advice and move on. I did a search and found another lady I want to meet that is in the same league
Erica, Gina will absolutely close a providers account if she doesn't responde to an ok. Not sure about getting back to a dude about scheduling apt. though.
There are tons of providers who will get back to you before you even log out of your email account after sending a message to them! Your post makes you sound desperate and whiny and thats the last thing you want to portray to a lady. Buck up, delete your post, and move on soldier!
like other replies have suggested just move on andc find another lady.I know there has to be other providers here in Vegas that is caught your eye.You said you do not ask inappropriate questions when contacted her maybe there is another reason why she is not getting back to you.If you provided some info and she did not respond back to you I agree you should have at least gotten a response saying she's unavailable or cannot see you.If a gent contacts me and it may seem we will not be compatible or I am not available I will at least let a gent know so he can make other plans.
Sometimes silence speaks louder than words obviously the appointment is not going to happen so contacting P411 about this issue I think is going too far.Because it is starting to sound like you are trying to be vindictive because she did not give you a yes or no now you want to get P411 involved.I am sure they deal with enough issues that are more important than a lady not getting back to you.
Sorry to hear this happened to you but again move on and find somebody else even if she was planning on getting back to you with this post that is not going to happen.
Good luck!
Find another provider and move on...
I am on P411 and have had occasions where providers have refused those credentials ( I have 6 okays from reviewed providers). My response has been to decline to see those providers.
Without knowing the exact communication with the provider, no one on this board can make an impartial judgement on your efforts to make an appointment.
I have difficulty making appointments with providers because I play in poker tournaments. That usually results in my getting prescreened, but no "formal" appointments. I fully understand this is frustrating to providers, but I strive to be honest. I usually wind up unable to meet providers during my trips to LV.
I also message "hi" to providers I see online on TER or P411, I actually had a provider that said she would block me on P411 for these missives since I didn't schedule an appointment. Evidently she was annoyed by the attention. I blocked her and told her she did not need to be worried about hearing from me again.
I would respectfully you show the provider you have difficulty with similar treatment.
Put her in your rearview mirror and don't look back. Best for her, best for you.
Regardless if she is a call girl or just a civie in the local supermarket. It would be best to take the hint,dust off your shoulder(or ego) and move on. As adults we should be less bruised by childess games or let downs. That is a part of growing cycle that we do on a daily basis besides its her loss. If she is that eager to turn down business that has positive reviews,,boo-hoo for her. Unfortunately if a lady shows no intrest in a guy there are so many pretty young/youthful things to chase. Warning: never take it out on her because you will make so many enemies that others will by pass you in total. Contacting P411 should only be if she violated one of their guidelines in total. Everyone has their turn-offs thats part of human nature,nothing personal at all. To all of the fellow punters/clients if you have been slighted by a call girl. Please do Not take it out on the rest of us!! Thank you..
I have moved on and I did take all advice to heart. I contacted another lady and was responded to in a very quick manner.
I also realized that I could just be being unfair. maybe shes sick...on vacation...on a long appointment and she's giving them the utmost attention...I was behaving like a spoiled kid and not taking into consideration that the ladies have thier own personal lives and are not at my becken call.
I hope she does well and I will put my ego away
I see you've been taking a bit of a beating by some of the others on the board, so I won't do that. But I do echo what they've said. It's best to just keep it moving man. That has happened to me at times in the past. When it first happened, it bothered me a bit because like you I didn't see a reason for it based on myP411 status and complimentary reviews I've given to ladies in the past. But man, this is a candy store and there are plenty of treats to choose from. It sounds like you might be someone that is used to getting his way and you're bothered by this because you can't control it and you feel like you are being rejected. Nothing you can do about, so why worry about it? No need to 'out' her by saying her name and definitely no reason to try and get her booted off of P411 Will that really make you feel better? I think that will only have repercussions that you haven't considered.
Bounce man.
Maybe you should write a strongly worded letter to her reginional manager. Or give her a bad review on Yelp. At the very least, please "unfriend" her on Facebook. That'll show her!
Dude, I think you're taking this too personally. I would've moved on long ago. But since this really seens to be an issue for you, just ask her outright if she will be seeing you or not. If the answer is "yes," congrats (I guess). If the answer is "no," or if you don't even get an answer (the more likely scenario), just leave it at that.
Of course we'd all like to know "why," but since she's unwilling to tell you what the hold up is, you're just gonna have to suck it up. I don't think involving P411 is the way to go. Just seems petty and unnecessary.
And as long as I'm standing on this soap box, I just don't get the point in posts like these, where a person details the entire perceived offense yet doesn't out the offender. It makes no sense. You're pissed that she won't give you a reason why, yet you don't seem to mind "teasing" the membership here.
