Hello all.  I have this scenario, maybe call it a fantasy, of meeting and picking someone up at a club.  Now one would probably just do this to a stranger at the club, but that's not really my style.  I generally meet up with a couple of other guys I've met and we get a table.  What do you think is the best way of setting it up with a provider in order to "pick her up" at the club?  Obviously for me, never meeting her ahead of time would be ideal, but for safety I can see that being a no go.  Would you meet her ahead of time for a drink, pay the donation and get to know one another a little first.  Then go separate ways and meet up in the club at some point.