Hi all,

so I hired my first escort, a girl named Trinity. She looked nothing like her pictures but she was pretty hot anyways. She charged me $250 for the outcall, then said she would have to take an additional tip of $800 in order to go the whole way. In the end, I paid it, and I didn't enjoy it (not her fault, this just isn't my sort of thing.)

I already paid, so I don't care, did I get ripped off? Is what she charged me normal? I'm pretty sure I got ripped off, but I want to know for sure.

http://www.tineye.com/search/c808755e2eba43d841e305536ace340d57684f07/

Bait and switch  ( not girl in photo ) - check !
Up-sell ( you were quoted one price over the phone , she came in and asked for more ) - check !!  
She didn't stay her full time - I don't know, you didn't say , but I will assume she didn't .....

Check ! Yes sorry to say you got ripped off . ;-( ;-(  

I am sorry to hear this happened to you . But you should use your big head  
and while you were at it , if you google her number you would have figured out in advance that maybe not the best choice to call.

See here is the problem , it doesn't matter if the girl showed up looking hot and cute.
If she doesn't look like her photos , send her away !!!!.
Cause when she isn't the girl in the photo 99.9% it is only going to go down hill from there .
but those girls that is what they count on .....

it's late , he is horny , I am cute he won't send me away , easy target to rip off  

A true independent will have her real photos .  
A true independent will have a flat fee. no up-sell .  

cause $250 sounds like a great price , right ? .......  
but that's how they ( rip offs )  get through your door.
If she would have said fee is $1150 , you would have said- never mind .
but interesting once in front of the guy , he will shell that out instead of turing her away .

On the bright side , at least you didn't get cashed and dashed or robbed.
You should write a review and while maybe you can't give her a full blown "rip off score "
( or maybe you can ) you can rate whatever comes after that .....like  
"I should have stayed at home"

 
She sounds like a typical newbie rip off agency type .  
because you at least got something for the fee . ( I assume based on what you wrote )  
Once she learns "the game" she will probably start cashing and dashing .  

I am a little confused on your comment - not her fault , this just isn't my sort of thing.
what isn't your sort of thing ??

Sorry this happened to you . Life is a learning experience. SO just learn from this experience
Don't repeat the same mistake ( yes some gents just never learn )  
and Kudos to you for posting here your experience , so others can learn from it .

I know when you find the right  TRUE independent for you , you will have tons of fun and enjoy it very much  !! ( you don't have to go "all the way" to enjoy it )  
xoxo CindySpice      

     
  -- Modified on 12/23/2013 5:09:25 AM

It was just weird paying for sex. I couldn't really get it up because it just didn't feel right LOL. It's hard to not think about the paying part, idk, I wanted just a girl to hangout with, I'd pay her to hang out with me, but then apparently that's more expensive than sex, so I don't know. Whatever, I tried it, she was nice about everything else!

sorry to hear it did not work out for you. but if you are so inexperienced with the game, how did u end up on this site? just wondering

Sx

First off you are not "paying for sex",  
you are paying for a ladies TIME and you are paying for her to LEAVE  
whatever happens between you and a lady you choose , well that is between the two of you .

You got ripped off because she wasn't the girl in the photo and she up-sold you .

Once you change your frame of mind and find a lady that will know to make you feel comfortable  
you will see things very different .  

That girl just wanted to make as much as possible , in least possible time so she can move on to the next victim .

well now you are here on TER . Get VIP , do A LOT Of research ....... and hopefully next time  
will be different.

If it makes you feel any better seems like most newbies make the same mistake first time ,  
then they find TER , then it is only heaven from there  

Good luck ,
xoxo CindySpice  

 
 

The advice and comment she offers is really some of the best.  Very "right on".  AND, her comment about thanking you for having the nerve to post this episode is greatly appreciated and understandably not an easy thing to do.  Thanks and better luck thru TER.

While yes, you did get "ripped", what happened to you happens all too frequently, unfortunately.  But please tell, as Serena asked, how DID you come across the board here after your indoctrination into the Vegas "Ooops!" Club?  Do some research on the board here and take a mulligan!

read the link below. Then spend time on the FAQ for Newbies board

$250 is for the girl to come over & not the provider in the photo, then the upsell begind.  It always amazes me how guys are on TER, but do not utilize the tools here to choose a great independent provider.  Why did you not pick a real provider with good reviews who is actually the girl in the picture?

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It's time for your real experience. You clearly know about ter so now browse the ad board and look for what you like and enjoy. Also many ladies offer social rates just to gamble or go to night clubs with no private time.  
When you know your getting worked nothing is going to feel right.  
Hook up with a ter Indy and you will enjoy yourself from start to finish. No negotiating about rates whats posted on her website is what it is and you leave it out and it's never spoke about again.  

Now go have some real fun.  

Afterwards, I was pretty sure I got ripped off, so I tried to search for a discussion board just to make sure. Curiosity was killing me.

I love your clarity and your insight…

TER is a great resource. Glad you found it 1sttime4it!

Welcome!

There are some AWESOME ladies on this site. I have met many of them. And the guys are pretty cool too.

Good luck in the future!

You can find anything here on TER and are guaranteed a great time!!!!

ha so u got here after! i see. well hopefully things will be better for you

He didn't even need tineye.  One of the photo has a visible watermark from Digital Desire.  That escort or pimp didn't even bother to remove it.

Yes

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When you connect with a great escort you won't feel that you're paying for sex at all (supposedly you aren't, yadda yadda yadda, whatever)...it'll feel very natural and fun, instead of, "you want the #4 special? that'll be $800" you get from gals who don't bother to connect.

I went through a similar experience yesterday. Not the lady in the photo. Agency phone number. My hormones got the best of me. The agency sent a different girl to make things up but by then I had wised up and sent her away.  

Second girl didn't match the picture either.

Because the girl in the pic is always really, really hot.  For many, being intimate with someone really, really hot is a bigger turn on than being with a great provider.