Hey kiddos....we love our reviews dont we???  then why can't we return the favor and get our guys on white list???  to me it is a great way to say thank you for a wonderful review!

Your suggestion is getting extremely close to offering to trade white list inclusion for a good review.  Probably ought to avoid even the appearance of impropriety.

i am sorry if it sounded that way........i would never do that.  i am just saying that if you have a great guy that takes the time (and it does take time) to review you, then why not return the honor.

i stay completely above board with my reviews and that is why they mean so much to me.

I don't ask guys to write reviews about me.
I don’t think it is right to put a guy on the spot asking for a review.
If they want to write a review,they know on their own how and where.

There are times I don't even know who is the guy who wrote the review..........unless they told me I am .......( insert handle name here ) and I am writing a review.
and then there are times that the review is fake.
I usually don't even ask for handle names because it doesn't really matter.

Some guys although they write reviews do not want to be "white listed"
Why ? I have been told - when a lady sees me on a white list she emails me asking for an appointment.

WOW , I think that is totally unprofessional to contact a client out of the blue because he was white listed.
I don’t know, maybe it is just me ,but I would never  contact a client asking to book an appointment,unless he asked me to do so.

So I don’t “white list” a client just because he wrote a review about me.I will white list a client if he asks me to do so.

If I do white list a client , I hope I don’t wake up the next morning for some reason, possibly unknown at the time and decide he isn’t worthy to be white listed  LOL LOL LOL

SO what does white list mean anyways ?? That the guy was ok with me.Doesn’t mean he will be ok with you.
How many times have we read on the boards stories of clients who were ok for a while then for whatever reasons they flip out and are not ok anymore.


A great way to say thank you for your review, is to send him a private email thanking him for the review.
Of course to do that I would have to know who is writing the review.


-- Modified on 11/4/2007 6:08:19 PM

well i dont mean whitelist everyone.......i havent been blessed with fake ones yet...so i know the few guys on my list pretty well.  the reason i wrote this not to get people upset at all. that just isnt in me.

I do know a girl who contacts whitelist guys.

I don't know who wrote about 1/3 of my reviews.  I do know that some of them are bogus, but I usualy don't bother except for the one that said that I was petite.  I had it removed because obviously that guy was an idiot and didn't do an ounce of research on me.

Point is, if a guy said that he saw me and/or wrote a review about me, don't just believe him.  Contact me.  I will happily figure out if he is telling the truth or not.

Feelings!I am not upset at all.

Merely stating the reasons why I don't "White List"............unless he wants me to white list him ,no problem.

BTW,always happy to give a referral if needed.

-- Modified on 11/5/2007 1:13:59 PM

Hey Sexy, I understood what you meant.  It did not sound bad to me.  I was put on the white list by a girl.  I did not ask her but, I sure did appreciate it.  

You'll find that there are people here that will try and make something out of nothing.  If there is a girl out there that won't even consider putting guys on the white list than why would a guy consider taking the time to write her a review?



-- Modified on 11/5/2007 10:24:53 AM