I am flexible per gentleman's request , but prefer dinner before .
As dinner before is a great way to connect with the gent , get to know each other.
Before is also great foreplay - physical - PDA , footsie under the table ect
Intellect conversation is a HUGE turn on for me .
The teasing , the anticipation , the build up adds a lot to the experience .... well for me it does.
I get it if for some "eating heavy" seems to be a problem .
Although personally I never found that to be a problem for me or the gent.
If it is , that person can't eat a bit lighter.
One problem for me about having dinner after is - I come to you all dolled up.
Lets just say by the time I am done with you in the room , I would need to get all dolled up again......and that doesn't involve just a 2 minute shower LOL LOL LOL
and I would need at least half an hour .........
Guys are so lucky they don't have to deal with raccoon eyes ,messy hair ect ect
If we are having in-room dinning , then that could solve that problem
I do understand from the gents point of view , he is thinking about his 2 cups
one before dinner , one after dinner.
Maybe because cups are never an issue or a problem with gents that I see , they don't have to think about it in that way .
Besides , Isn't the point of a dinner date to have the experience of a GFE date ?
What GFE date "in real life" ( especially if meeting for the first time )dinner would be after
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Also for "legal" reasons dinner before works better .
But at the end of the day , it is your time , your choice .
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: redsox1
I was wondering if the ladies prefer to have dinner before or after the encounter. I've always taken the lady to dinner first but after reading another post it got me wondering. Vegas is a wonderful city and I can't wait to return.
I love dinner dates and when I have the pleasure of having a dinner date we usually go to dinner first.
It is great way to get to know one another if it is a first time meeting or catching up with someone who you have met before.
The flirting and great conversation shared over a fabulous meal is just one of the things I like about dinner dates.There is no rush we can take our time.
I have read other posts regarding dinner dates and most people like to have dinner afterwards.
Every gent I have had a dinner date with has made plans/reservations for dinner before private time.
Plus you get me for dessert
However if a gent wanted to dinner afterwards I would not have an issue doing it this way.
mental stimulation and therefore intimacy may be enhanced by cognitive connection.
During can be super messy, naughty, horny, fun.
After it brings conversation to a next level and the atmosphere is more relaxed, also a great way of having a break before….dessert
Serena
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