new provider to bring a different condom brand? I posted a recent tread about condoms and I would like to try the Durex brand, but how do I communicate this by email to my future provider without going over the line.

I will usually send him an email/text asking if he has any special requests.... That would be the time for you to mention it!

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all providers state not discussing certain topics when communicating to them; so I did not want to take the chance of them canceling on me when I ask about condoms and FC.

That is a great idea, but not all providers have asked me. Most all providers have stated on their website that sexual or inappropriate conversations are not acceptable. I did not want to ask them about using a brand of condoms and have them canceling on me.

I posted that question about bringing my own and there was a lot of discussion from providers refusing to use condoms that a hobbyist brings or they did not purchase.

This is totally what I was thinking, until I read the next thread… Both good points

How much does a box of condoms cost? a couple of bucks? if you can't afford a few bucks, what are you doing hobbying. Buy em, bring them in the box, bring the receipt.  Then ask her, if she says yes, great, if she says no, what's the BFD. If you have a good time, and rebook, chances are on the second session, she'll say it's ok.  You really make this a lot harder than it is.  

If you're really worried, wait until after you have been screened, then ask permission, "Now that i've been screened, may I please make a personal request".  Make the request sound professional. "I would like to use this brand of condom, do you mind if I pick up a package, or is that something you prefer to do".  Remember, they WANT you to be happy and satisfied. It's kinda their job.  

That is a great idea. I did not think about asking for a personal request.Thanks.

....lol, you're not suppose to put them on your fingers!!  Wow...14...that mighta cost more then the girl.  I travel with 3...I'm so ill prepared....

I sometime do put them on my fingers.....

I use COTS.