Hello, long time hobbiest and reviewed on other boards. Heading to Vegas in a couple of weeks and thought I would set something up since I have a specific time frame I’m available. Reached out to provider. I am retired and totally understand the need for screening. 💯 and I’m even ok with a deposit. Screening included a selfie (no problem)2 forms of id with one of them being my license. I covered my date of birth and home address. Provider wanted it unblocked. Is this normal? That’s a lot of info to have. Or should I not worry about it? Thanks
There is no reason for a provider to see your home address. Sounds like you went above and beyond. Honestly I would move on if that wasn't enough for her.
I tell people to block out their home address if they send a copy of their ID
It depends on how hard you are to screen. In your case it sounds like you are an established hobbyist, so it probably would not be necessary if you were using an established email and phone number. I don’t ever need your address.
I am baffled at how people allow this 🤦🏽♀️ it’s not helpful. The date of birth is needed for verification. Your address can help identify many factors for screening. Why send an ID that has all the important information hidden? 🤷🏽♀️
If it’s too much to provide there are plenty of providers who require less real information to be vetted. I’m not one. I do not rely on references nor p411 to screen for my safety. Yes it’s normal to send an id 🪪 that has not been blurred. 🙋🏽♀️
I will be the first to say that my screening methods are ever changing and differ situation to situation. People with common names are the most difficult to screen. Because there are lots of different people with that same name and I am trying to make sure that I get it correct. I provide private Incall in Vegas in a secured building. As I understand plenty of people use hobby names coming to my private Incall with a hobby name doesn’t work. Despite how much instructions you give people they still may do their own thing. We are in the age of the Karen so I need to be able to address you by proper name if you accidentally have a run in with security. Has this ever happened, no. I just prefer to be safe.
Things also greatly differ if you are looking for an outcall in Vegas. Unlike most cities you are constantly on camera here. In the event you harm me, I know my family would receive justice. So your hobby name and provider references work just fine. When I tour I have the most strict screening of all. I am alone on the road and all the different safety measures need to be accounted for.
Screening is about mitigating risks. There is so much that runs through my mind when I go to screen a client. Sometimes I give an automatic no just based on what you placed in my tell me about yourself field. Sometimes it’s about how we interacted within email or text. I have been a provider long enough to understand that people may be nervous. I have offered a pre meeting phone call to make sure that we are a good fit. For me, I am not wanting to see everyone, just because I am their type. I may offer plenty of services that intrigue someone but we may not necessarily click. I tend to turn down those that are seeking theatrics and all fantasy. I prefer to cater to those who want a real person, with real connection. I need for someone to understand that life happens and I am a real person. If you are looking for someone to be “on” then we are not a good fit. I like witty jokes and fun banter. Anyone who has been on my milking table knows I have laid on the floor and chit chatted afterwards, sometimes demonstrating the position they were in at the time of release. Me being able to relax like this comes because of how I screen. I don’t want to have a single doubt in my mind that I am safe. So yes, I am one of those ladies that are asking you for an unblurred picture of your ID. Did you ever think that sometimes we are looking to see how you respond to simple questions. Many forget that your screening started the moment you made contact.
Please don’t be discouraged if what you are comfortable with doesn’t align with what the provider you are seeking is comfortable with. We will all find someone that works just fine for us.
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