Re: hooked on phonics

Very good point Samantha. I am new as a provider,but I have a long dancer background. As I am trying to decipher the differences between the 2(a huge difference) I am finding, that in this business you tend to get a lot of "time-wasters". I assumed that b/c I come from the clubs and they constantly ask for dates there, that I would have left that far behind me. Little did I know that these "time-wasters" and "hagglers" are everywhere! Lol, I guess some people tend to love the art of negotiation. So far, I have been text messaged by a pimp(I took my number down after reading 100 proof's post),been through a couple of no show clients, and been ran around in circles with "time-wasters" sending endless emails. So I read like crazy all of the lovely provider bpards, tips, and advice, looking for some clarity in all of this. I am happy to know now that it's not me, and that some people have a lot of free time on there hands to try and waste my time!

your post is not really some sort of revelation in the provider world. Many providers before you, one's that are active now and many to come after you, will experience the same issues.

It is part and parcel for your chosen career. I would not let it get to me so much that it causes a rant like this. Speaking of too much time on one's hands. Granted there are tire-kickers out there, and wheeler dealers, discount-wanters, pimp-a-kings that want to manage your affairs. Deal with it and focus on the last paragraph you wrote.

After all, isn't that where the real rewards are?

Re: hooked on phonics

I reference to your closing paragraph, not sure which gentlemen you are referring to. But in case I happen to be one of them, you are most certainly welcome, Sam.

So many times I have responded to ridiculous questions that are easily answered on my website.  

I am actually at a place now that I REWARD gents who read and follow directions efficiently.

Foreplay starts in the mind.......

Thank you for making this point.

Juls