you're with the provider of your dreams and you want to let her know that your idea of GFE is long deep kisses with your lady running her tongue down your neck and softly kissing her way to your chest where she kisses, licks and sucks your nipples.  then lightly tugs on them with her teeth  while flicking her tongue on the tips.  But as a guy you feel self consious expressing the need to have your whole body kissed and teased rather than going straight for the obvious locations.  Don't get me wrong I love french lessons as much as the next guy but for me GFE means the woman I'm with wants to please me from head to toe.

I love the feel of a woman playing me like a fine instrament and having her lightly rake her nails down my back and legs while using her mouth and body to give pleasure to my limbs, torso and all points inbetween.  The same for me if a lady enjoys having the back of her neck kissed or toes sucked I would want that expressed.

So ladies how should I approach this subject, and let you know that as an older man I prefer a slower senual pace, that I need erotic attention to various areas not always expressed and that I want to spend a long time enjoying your scent and taste as well.

Got my Panties all moist.
Tori Blake

I know it takes a lot of courage. I have been with some beautiful women too and they are intimidating. At first, I had to just try to relax, I was so concerned I was doing this right or that right. i finally realized she was having as much f as i was, but it did take me awhile to feel courageous. Hang in there!

I think that most of us girls appreciate when someone tells us exactly what they are looking for, in a polite manner. No one likes to play the guessing game.

xo
LaRue McCay

I love it & respect the truth, so you've done well!

Have hobbied on and off for a while and have had GFE.  At this point, am looking for more interesting, write to penthouse type experiences, perhaps outfits, roleplay, unique locations or scenarios.  Still find it a little awkward to bring these up to see if there are in the ladies interest.

The way you just did !
No need to be shy. communication is key for any relationship.
Even in this non traditional relationship........ hobbyist/provider relationship
Just be honest and share your desires.

If the lady you want is into your desires , then perfect.
If she isn't , no big deal , no hard feelings .
you can move on and find someone else who is.

One of the best things about this hobby is to have a lady who will/can fulfill your desires and fantasies.

Speak up , don't be shy and your desires/fantasies can be a reality. *wink wink*

BTW , I love your desires
xoxo CindySpice


 

I love it when people write me their ultimate fantasy beforehand so that I can prepare for the rendezvous and know exactly what would turn you on, in advance, so that the energy can just flow when we are together....

And ps. I LOVE GFE slow and sensual, as much as I love the PSE. But it is always good to know in advance which type of session the person would like...

all the responcs were great and I'm going to take the advice and let my next provider know what I desire.  with any luck it will be with one of the ladies that responded both to the thread and privately.  I know from talking with past providers some don't like descriptions that are too graphic so it will take some imagination to let my next date know what I want done to me, the pace I enjoy and how I enjoy taking my time savorying the feel, scent and taste of my companion.

once again thank you to all who responded