Identify yourself, so all the other women can avoid your sores.

and focused on the extraneous, let's see if maybe I can help ya out here...

You can "speak out" as you claim you want to do, but that speech will carry little weight when done behind an alias.

It has nothing to do with being a "big board persona", it has to do with credibility, when you make an accusation veiled behind an alias it carries far less weight than if the same accusations were made by someone that people felt they could trust...

You say you are out time and the price of a room...and that may be true, or it may not be...you may under other aliases or your registered user name have 100 complaints against ladies no showing on you...which would lead people to think the problem might just be with you...or you may be a guy that ladies really like and have a good reputation...but neither can be gleaned from your Skeptical alias.  

So your righteous indignation and need to speak out becomes empty and given no credence...and when that happens you haven't so much spoken out as just made noise.

For all anyone reading your posts knows she may have had a very good reason for not seeing you, and it might be connected to your actual user name (ie a reputation for being rude, reviewing without respect, no showing other ladies, double booking etc.)...

You could behind an alias be another lady trying to hurt her business, you might just be an average a**hole...you might be lots of things, and since we can't know whether you are someone we should listen to or not your words become a low, annoying buzz of background noise which states and signifies nothing.

That you want to follow up the fact that your "speaking out" might actually carry some measure of weight had you had the intestinal fortitude to do so with your registered user name was met by you accusing "white knight-ery" and other things just makes your statement seem even to have less merit.

So warn away, but be aware that if you actually cared to have anyone take your warnings seriously you would do so under your user name, so that those reading could decide how much weight your accusations should or shouldn't carry, with an alias, they will tend to err on the side of "you must be hiding for a reason" and give your words no weight at all.

There...any clearer to you?
It is not now nor was it ever about her believability, but about yours.

Oh as for my alias...
WebTerrorist here...but anyone that has ever read a post of mine probably already figured that out.  *grin*